This is a name change.
My once loving smart intelligent boy is in the ultimate destruction mode, his mate has just sent me a video with him messaging 'hi 'Alexes' (fake name) mum, this was on my older brothers mates story, and I think you should see.' It was a video of him 'hitting' (is that the right term?') a bong at a skate park, and a can of dark fruits next to him, this apparently isn't the first time, even though I've never cottoned on. I've made sure his access to cash is restricted, to stop him buying anything else, and he's officially kicking off in his room, I reckon he's made a hole in his wall out of anger.
I'm not sure if I want a handhold or advice, but both are needed and appreciated.