hi. I could use some advice .
I have a daughter who is 19. She's really smart and was an A grade student but refused to attend school last year.
She got a part time job and seemed to love that. She's on time etc.
However she's signed up to college this September and it's going so badly I'm at my wit's end.
She never gets up and never attends. She's been anaemic and blames it on that but she's been going into work without a problem.
I'm unemployed as I live in an unemployment blackspot and have an autistic child. I don't get any payment for my daughter because she isn't attending . She doesn't pay rent and I would be fine with that if she was studying but she's not.
She's in a part time job earning about £140 weekly and paying nothing. I refuse to pay for her phone credit etc but I am still paying for everything.
She has OCD and won't deal with it. She hides out in her room until the afternoon or gets up late then says she needs to wash her hair and that takes hours. Literally.
She's driving me mad and putting me under serious stress and I feel like she needs to move out and face life on her own terms.
She's rude to me and mean to her younger sibling.
Advice please!? I'm so over enabling her whole lying routine. She's starting to feel like a ball and chain ! I love her but she's using that