They just can't seem to be in the same room. DH only has to say one thing + DS will escalate to a full blown row - swearing + today they ended up standing nose to nose threatening to punch each others lights out after DS19 thumped DS16 in the balls.
I know DS19 is feeling very upset with life at the moment + told me a few days ago that he feels suicidal at times. I haven't told DH this as I know that DH will bring it up + use it out of context, so daren't tell him. DS told me in confidence. I advised him to talk to the Samaritans if he needs to.
Any other advice please?