DD1 will be 18 soon. She isn’t having a party. I asked her what she would like to do for her birthday and she said she wanted to go away or spend time with her partner. They cannot really afford to spend money. I am thinking of booking some accommodation for them, but does that kind of sound wrong? Can I have someone’s else’s perspective please. I think I will need to start thinking of her as an adult and not a child. 18 is considered an adult where I live.