Mother has let 15 year old daughter sleep at hers with her boyfriend without asking me

[Sissi2018]

I have just found out today that when my 15 year old daughter stayed around her nans at the weekend her new boyfriend also stayed- I have never met this boy properly, I trust my daughter and hope she would tell me if anything happened, she is young for her age and think she’d have been too scared to try anything but I’m absolutely fuming that my mother would do this without asking me,surely she should have asked me 😳

Omg she should definitely have spoken to you.

I’m beyond livid😣 just really don’t know how to approach it with my mum without getting really angry

Well, she’s never stopping at her nan’s House again for a start.

She absolutely should have asked you. But what's done is done so have a chat to your dd and ask her if she's ok.

I would ask your mum first before going in full steam ahead, it could be that your daughter told her it was allowed/he’s stopped at yours etc

If the above doesn’t apply then your right to lose it, she should have spoken with you first and I would put a stop to overnight stays, for now.

No she most definitely won’t be staying there- thank you for your replies I will be speaking to my daughter, need a couple of days to cool down before I approach the mother trouble is it will go in one ear and out the other and play dumb that she doesn’t understand why I’m so annoyed!