Ok so, dd turns 15 on Tues. She spends 50% if her time at her dad and step mum’s. She’s been there a week and now says for her birthday she wants - around 15 people round in the evening and 4 girl friends to sleepover.
Firstly, I hate these ‘sleepovers’ because I won’t get any sleep! They will be loud til about 4am! No matter what I say (been there done that and hated it). My house is a small 3 bed semi and from the lounge the sound really carries.
Secondly. I’ve seen pics on her phone of dd smoking cannabis. The day before she went to her dads. Not yet had time to broach the subject (she is out at a friend’s b’day sleepover).
Hate the thought of the sleepover. But know I probably just need to suck that up. I feel really worried about the house being overwhelmed and trashed (her friends are all really massive talk and loud) and things getting out of hand, alcohol, drugs, smoking...even if I say absolutely none of it is allowed.
My dd is in the full throes of teenagerhood and is not sensible. I can’t go out.
Do I agree? What ground rules? How to handle this??!! Or do I say no! Argh!! Help....!
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HipsterAssassin · 30/03/2018 19:26
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