trouble with my teenage daughter

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can anyone give me some advise, my 15 year old daughter has become a monster , I have had bother with her for 3 years, from the police bringing her home , lying to me, having sex , she is now smoking cannabis, and cigarettes .I cant say anything to her at all , she hates me, she has now gone to live with her father, who is smoking and I believe she is doing it with him, she says there is nothing I can do ? I want her home but cant be spoken to this way anymore, but I'm afraid for her wellbeing?

I know this is a bit late but just wanted to reach out and say that I feel for you!!
It's so difficult when someone you love takes a path that worries you so much!! Have you asked for support - school, GP, called parentline or just spoken to friends and family! Sounds like you might need support to tackle this!! Sometimes we can get into vicious cycles where everything we do seems wrong but maybe with some help you can break this!! Thinking of you!!

You are not on your own with this. It is horrible when your children do this and act this way. Sending a virtual hug.

Thanks for your support , I have spoken to gp and some other parents, they all tell me she wil come out the other side!! She has now started messaging me mentioning about coming back!

Oh that is good news - just try to keep strong as If anything like my son- long difficult road ahead.