My 18yr old daughter has been in her first relationship for the past year. Turbulent is the only way I can describe it and she has been hurt so much. At the beginning of the relationship the parents booked a holiday including my daughter and bf who agreed to it. The holiday isn't for a couple of months but they have been paying it off over the last 8mths. During the last month my daughter's bf has dumped her three times. Each time to our dismay she has gone back to him. The second time she got back with him I told her we wanted nothing to do with him and that he was not welcome in our life. A week later he broke up with her again. The third time it happened she told his mother she wouldn't be going on the holiday and to refund any money etc. Not long after she did this the mother messaged her saying she had just had to pick up the son up from work as he had had a breakdown. A few hours later my daughter messaged her and said she had changed her mind and would now go on the holiday. I was FURIOUS !! I gave her the ultimatum. Either carry on having them in your life and go on the holiday and you can no longer stay at home OR have nothing to do with them and she could stay at home. The second time they broke up her reasoning was that they needed time to sort themselves out and 'better' themselves. He is always telling her she is too emotional etc etc. So she decided to change her contraception so she wouldn't be so emotional (it was the pill that was causing it not the bf apparantly), she started taking medication to help with her anxiety (again this was not caused by the bf apparantly) and she started doing yoga. He on the other hand did nothing to improve himself. Obviously she wasn't 'improved' enough because he broke up with her again. When I gave her the ultimatum she chose 'the holiday' and him even though they are 'just friends'. She went and stayed with a friend the first night but then went to stay at his. I am at my wits end as to what to do to get her back.