So oldest ds (14) has met a girl he seems besotted with. Spends every waking moment with her or texting/face timing her. She is also 14. They are currently upstairs in his room with door shut watching a film. It's all a bit weird! I'm glad he feels comfortable enough to bring her home but am I doing right thing allowing them to be alone is his room? I am in touch with her mum and I've let her know she's here and she's fine with it. He is my eldest so this situation is all new to me!