DD is 18, came out 2 years ago, has self harmed from age of 13. had secret boyfriend at 14 (we found out when she came home with a black eye) has always had anger management issues. secondary school was a nightmare, constant calls from school regarding her attitude and behaviour. at 16 was diagnosed with a (non cancerous) tumour in her ear, affecting her hearing and balance, op was successful - growth removed early this year and hearing much better. anyway she started college, doing a course that she has so much enthusiasm for, i felt we had turned a massive corner...until i got a letter from college informing me she had been suspended for an aggressive verbal attack on her tutor. i attended an interview with the course director and college supervisor. an i am so embarrassed and disappointed by her actions. I am at a loss what to do. she is to go in for a meeting after half term to discuss whether or not she will be staying on the course. i would not blame her teacher one bit if she is told to change courses, but worry that she would spiral completely out of control. i feel like crying and i havent slept properly sonce last week when it all happened. DH is currently having a massive flare up of his chronic illness, so i don't feel i can talk to him about this fully atm, as he is in so much pain. :'(