DD is 14 , in year 10. Since year 9 her social life seems to just be a massive bitch fest 
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There is never a week goes by without some fall out or another. Mainly petty issues involving girls stirring things up, DD is very easy to wind up and I feel a few use her to fight their battles a bit, load her up and point her. I know she shouldn't but she has HF ASD and ADHD and is very easy to get going. She doesn't see they are stirring she really buys into it all "she said I was ugly to blah blah I'm going to message her". It's been a really dramatic year I even had another parent phoning up and threatening me over DD and her DDs argument. Thankfully no physical fights just arguments and lots of them 
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When do they cut this crap?! It's becoming quite consuming and affects how DD is at home quite a lot. I can see where she goes wrong and tell her but I do feel sad for her when they all pretend they are grounded then post pictures of them all out together knowing DD will see then confront them , then it's another battle.