My dd has recently got together with a man who is her first "proper" boyfriend. Since then, she's dumped us as a family, stays over at his three times a week, goes out with him every night etc. She's dumped her friends too.
I've gone out of my way to welcome him into our family but in four months, I've met him three times. He's welcome to stay here, they can socialise here etc but when I broach this with her, she says "yeah yeah" and he never materialises. I really have tried hard to include him (even inviting for Xmas day!) but she isn't keen for him to be part of our family.
I can't help thinking he and his parents know more about my dd than we do at the moment - I know nothing of her life now as she shares very little, especially with regard to this man.
Advice wise people - is this just a phase and will she come back to us? I'm inclined to hope/think it is a phase!