Have been having behavioural problems over the last couple of years. She does have some additional needs and in addition i think it is very likely she is on the AS spectrum but we didnt get a diagnoses in that.
She screams in my face, shes rude, she refuses to do anything i say. She hits, she pushes, she breaks things, she throws things. She has yelled that i brought her hitting me on herself.
My parents are v ill at the moment and Mum is terminal but this has been going on long before.
Nothing i do seems to make a difference. Ive shouted, punished, give consequences, cried 
the lot.
She hates school but is not being bullied.
She just says she gets angry at me if I say no 
Ive read the explosive child and take me to town book.
I am being abused in my own home and i cant cope. It is making me suffer from awful anxiety and i am walking on egg shells.
She won't go the school counsellor or doctors.
Im reaching the point i don't like her very much.