Re: previous thread. Hi. Can anyone help me please? Social Services are going to see my daughter at her nan's on Wednesday. My ex husband told me that they phoned him for her number, rang her and arranged the appointment. Does this make sense? Wouldn't they have phoned me to arrange a meeting with both of us? I think my husband may have phoned them as he is enabling her in leaving home. Now, he isn't answering my calls and nor is my daughter. Should I contact social services myself and ask to see someone to explain what is going on from my side? Please help.