Not sure where to turn, my 17 year old is a pain. She is rude, stays out all night. don't know where she goes. She believes she has had a rough time and her brother had everything. In fact she had it all, every school trip, hobbies, two horses, etc. Im paying for her driving lessons, but its not appreciated. She dropped out of college so has a dead end job, which she hates, She wont go back to college. She lies, drinks when she is out. Wont tell us where she is. when we return from work she is often out but god knows where. Frightened to tell her off in case she self harms which she has done in the past. She has over a barrel. I want to run away myself.