Just found secret stash of tobacco in DS room (almost 16) had an issue a while back but thought this was over. We've had issues recently with poor behaviour at school ( various time outs and a 1 day exclusion for back chat) we know he has low self confidence and looming GCSEs are scary. Devastated to find it looks like smoking is still going on (no one at home or in family smokes) but very aware of the world teens live in and mindful of his present mental state with exams etc. so ..... Do I do want I would like to and bin it all or turn a blind eye save a frame prior to eXams? What would you do?