My DS has become nocturnal. Although the internet is off at 12mn he stays up to 5 or 6am. He gets to college by the skin of his teeth and is struggling with his AS levels. DH and I have opposing ideas about how to get him to become a real member of the family other than him living in a virtual friendship arena. I recognise its my frustration but he is antisocial and beginning to fall into a big hole. I'm increasingly worried. He told me he bought a book to help a friend with suicidal ideas.......