I don't even know where to begin..
I posted on here a long time ago about my daughter.
Cut a v long story short she started really playing up, her stepdad has no rules and is very rarely at home so lets her do what she likes, she has moved in with him and has been there for nearly a year basically bringing herself up in ways.
Its been such a tough 12 months with no contact really other than the odd text as she refuses to reply to me. I have had my ex's brother step in and has taken my side on how I deal with things yet my ex still thinks he is dealing with her the right way.
We have had issues with schooling, drinking, now smoking..all things that kids experiment with but his attitude is just so lax shes getting worse.
The point im up to now is she has no mobile. One of many that she s broke and ex is refusing to replace it. She wants another iphone, refuses to use anything else and so therefore hasn't got one. My ex has no contact now with her unless shes with one friend of hers who he uses as a point of contact. I have suggested getting her a PAYG one so I can contact her so am doing that.
What do I do if she wont reply on that? A lot of my friends and family who have seen what's happened over the last year have said not to get it as she will just use it for her friends but if she uses it all up and doesn't contact me I just don't top it up I guess..
Just not sure what else I can do..im not allowed round her house, she wont come to my house..
many thanks and apologies as there is much more to this but would take me forever to write. Sure my other posts are on here but have no idea how to find them