prom dresses

[fourkids]

Hi, I wonder if any mums can advise me about prom dresses please? I realise this is early to be thinking about a prom next summer, but I thought I might drag DD into town after Christmas to see if we can pick up a bargain in the sales.

DD is going to be sooooooo far out of her comfort zone in a dress, that I want to be able to help...so does anyone know what sort of thing they wear please? full length/calf length/knee length? black or coloured? sequins? diamonds? (not real obviously) straps/strapless? silk/chiffon/velvet? fitted and slinky/or big princessy skirt?

I know. I sound useless. In my day, when you finished your O levels you got your mates to write all over your school shirt and went home to watch telly. Or hung around on a street corner with all your newly found free time. I am also out of my comfort zone!

DD wore a long halterneck evening gown to hers she was 18 though will your dd be 16 she might like something a little funkier DD got her from china much cheaper than in the shops they can wear what they feel comfy in you will get all sorts from short strappy dresses to be puffy sticky out creations, I got dds from a website called dress uk ( i think)

The girls in ds's year wore mainly long dresses. They were all fairly colourful, not much black but not big princessy skirts either.

Hi fourkids, I don't have any direct experience but dd's boyfriend's sister had her year 11 prom last summer and I saw lots of photos.

The girls all seemed to have full length dresses, all sorts of different colours, some with straps but mostly strapless, some with decoration (eg embroidery, sequins etc) but many without. They were mostly A-line or closer fitting dresses rather that ballgown style ones iykwim.

I think there are quite a few websites that sell prom dresses, possibly a bit cheaper than the high street? might be worth checking out.

Let me know how you get on - dd is currently year 10 so I will be doing the same as you this time next year!

They were mostly A-line or closer fitting dresses rather that ballgown style ones iykwim.

that was the style dd wore but some of the girls did have puffy dresses 4kids i am looking to see if i have still the websites book marked was 2 years ago though

Full length - definitely.

And after Christmas is not too early to be looking. Unless you buy off the shelf, they take 13 weeks to get made. Then my DDs needed to be altered when it arrives, as they are just made to standard sizing. The shops don't stock all sizes and all colours of a particular dress - just some sample items.
I think you'd be lucky to get one in a sale after Christmas - that's when everyone starts looking for prom dresses :(

Can you find some photos on Facebook of last year's at her school?

My DD1s dress was about £100 - very simple. Some of the girls had obviously just come from a gipsy wedding - their dresses must have cost £££££!

thanks all...so I'm thinking long, A line, plainish, nice colour rather than black, and maybe (seeing as I have so much time) look at ordering from China.

I'll go and look at Dress UK - very, very happy to take recommendations :)

YDdraigGoch how disappointing - I thought I was Mrs Uber Organised!

some super examples of 'gypsy wedding' type dresses on Ebay - very reasonable too. If that's your cup of tea...

ARGHH why cant i do links , go to ukdresses online they have fab dresses

ukdressesonline - found it. thank you!

Some do the Big Fat Gypsy Wedding thing but at my dd's prom a lot just wore v nice mid-thigh length lacy dresses. DD's was £40 from Topshop as she didn't see the point in spending money on something she'd only wear once. The bleedin' shoes cost more than the dress!

I think the parameters are set by whatever 'style' your dd's friendship group are into. You can spend ££££££ if you want but what I'm saying is that it's perfectly OK to do something totally unflashy.

By the way, you'll almost certainly find that pretty soon someone in your dd's year will set up a Facebook "School Prom Dresses 2013" group where everyone posts a pic of their dress to make sure nobody else is going in the same thing

I have boys but watched all the girls looking gorgeous at DS1's prom last year. Some , to be honest were a bit big fat gypsy wedding, but others were very glamorous and tasteful. My favourite was a one shouldered cream dress like a Greek goddess.
There were also two girls in tuxedos which might be fun for someone who hates posh frocks?

Depending on where you live have a trip to Oxford, Headington in articular. When I lived there the charity shops saved the ballgowns (and in Oxford charity shops get a lot of ballgowns) for Christmas and April (in time for the May ball). I've had a couple of ball gowns from them.

Some prom dresses, particularly the two piece ones are really easy to make if yoou do any sewing.

DDs hair and make up cost more than her shoes at hers she got them in primark she was smug with her tenner shoes that she bought herself where as i had been buying dresses hair prom tickets blah blah

Oooh! Thanks for the Headington tip sashh. Might take my DD there to have a mosey round. When you say "ballgowns" - would these be suitable for a prom, or is a ballgown something fancier? My DD just wants something long, but simple - definitely not fat gypsy wedding!

you see all sorts at prom for simple dresses to full ball gowns the ball gawns seemed to be in the minority though but there will be girls wearing them . as long as your dd likes her dress feels glam and is comfortable she can wear what she likes

DD hired hers. She's not a girly girl at all so it worked well for her. The lady in the shop was helpful. I am not girly either and was a bit useless. Cost about £45. Was a full length close fitting dress. Some of her friends wore puffy, frilly dresses too. Majority were full length.

I collected ds and what seemed like about 14 mates from his prom last Summer and was suprised how many of the girls were wearing knee length dresses (as in, still a minority, but all my previous experience was they wore long "evening" dresses) so if she hates the idea of long, she wouldn't be the only one.
I've looked at a lot of prom photos over the last 4 years or so (tis the age my dc, nieces, God Children and friends children are) and there really is no 'uniform'. They can wear what they want, from the sophisticated, elegant black to the ballgown babydoll pink. Agree with most though that the majority seem to go for a brightish colour, often A-line, often with a bit of sparkle or sequin.
The key seems to be the shoes - incredible things. The rule there seems to be that if you can walk in them, they are not high enough

My DD's year went half long half short. My DD went short strapless with sequins and we had it made in China thru eBay. Was gorgeous.

Top tip from friend with older girls, go into town around 22nd/23rd December, if you can bear the crowds, there will already be sales bargains. Take along heels if DD plans wearing them and a strapless bra to help see how the dress will hang.

DD1 got a lovely red drapey dress- full length (not strapless -she'd rather not) from Oxfam!

Keep your eyes open. 2nd had would be fine and rather stops the "3 dresses the same and X looked do much beter than me" issues!

I have to agree with Theas18 - I regularly see beautiful dresses in Charity shops for a fraction of the price....I suppose it's the sort of dress that once you've worn it to the prom and shared lots of photos with everyone, it's not the sort of thing you would then wear again to many 'dos'.

Depends on the girl and what's normal for their image I think.

DD went in yr 11 Prom a plain black knee length dress, V neck with a bit of cleavage. Supplemented it with a mauve shawl/scarf. But essentially she's an outdoor lass; happy biking in lycra or walking in breeches.

Some of her mates in ballgowns and uplifted boobs looked OK but far too many were gypsy wedding style.

The Lad's female companion at his was also modest, though she had the height to carry off a gown.