ok, i need some opinions on this :my dd is nearly 14 (december) and she thinks i'm being totally unreasonable, overprotective and generally a pain because i won't let her go out in the evenings to hang out with her mates. i would like her to be home when it gets dark and she wants to stay out until 9 or 9.30pm.
some of her friends apparently(!) are allowed to stay out this long, i just think it's not safe, they hang around outside somewhere so it's not like they would be at someone's house.
am i being old fashioned, overprotective etc ??