Gf birthday dilemma

[2shoes]

ok ds has been with his very nice GF for a couple of months
she will be 18 in a couple of weeks
so we give card.
do I put £10 in it or not?(I like her but relise they won't be for keeps)

hi I would give a card and choose a nice pair of earrings for her for a £5. There are plenty of silver earrings about. That way it loks like you thought about it but its still just £5. It will keep your son happy too. Thats what I would do anyway.