12 year old boys and porn...gawd

[patz]

I have just discovered my son has been looking at porn on his computer, I am horrified and need to speak to him about it. How should I approch it though. Any ideas??

KatieScarlett. I am fingers in ears lalalalalalala, it will never happen to me.

after you have spoken to him, hit yourself round the head with a frying pan for not having the correct internet measures inplace.

to me this is the same as shouting as a toddler for eating your easter eggs when you left the in reach.

its a problem, but not a major one, theres plenty worse you hear about on the TV where young boys are fighting, killing and having sex far too early

even when they mature into grown dads they still view these sites hehe

wipedclean1 did you namechange for that post? Have unfortunate mental image in head.

cripes i thought i had enough bother with my DD 14! Just letting all the mummies and daddies know that boys are swapping porn pics on their phones from age 12 ( i am a teacher in a small country secondary school) and we have had to deal with this a few times in the last couple of years where a parent has found it and informed us that they were being passed between them. THe girls send each other internet links

Patz, Jannerbird

Better porn on a computer than getting pregnant

Good to sit down and discuss differences between sex in porn and sex in real life. Porn looked at by a girl though is unusual behaviour and usually linked to an unusually strong libido - keep an eye on that for fear of it developing into sexual experimentation at a young age - plenty of boys/men who wouldn't say no.

But no need to block it - like I said, better than getting pregnant or, Patz, getting a girl pregnant.

dont know about online but if you find any magazines cut out the womens heads and stick a photo of your head on every women in the mag-hel never look at porn again! or get an erection!