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Surrogacy

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Has anyone managed the parental order process for surrogacy without a solicitor?

24 replies

Lish28 · 23/04/2026 12:48

Hi there, I’m wondering if anyone has any experience with the legal side of it all - like experience in parental order form / court / doing it on your own instead of instructing a solicitor? Thanks!

OP posts:
aberamagold · 24/04/2026 11:53

Please just don't do it.
Apart from the ethics of putting a woman through the substantial health risks of pregnancy to fulfil someone else's desires, you would be deliberately creating a baby with the intention of removing it from its mother. It's cruel.

arethereanyleftatall · 24/04/2026 12:02

I wouldn’t have thought anyone admits to buying a baby op.

Nasaca · 02/06/2026 15:38

Yes, I did it without solicitors.

MyMonthlyNameChange · 02/06/2026 15:54

‘How do I legally obtain ownership of another human being?’

Fuckin hell.

kibefo · 08/07/2026 20:23

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WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 08/07/2026 20:25

Buying a baby is much easier than it should be but still a complex endeavour. I'd want a lawyer to deal with the sale.

MrsKeats · 08/07/2026 21:56

MyMonthlyNameChange · 02/06/2026 15:54

‘How do I legally obtain ownership of another human being?’

Fuckin hell.

Exactly. Should be illegal. Moves are being made towards this thankfully.

PatioSitter · 08/07/2026 22:07

Have you tried www.webuyanybaby.com?

Lovelyview · 08/07/2026 22:12

One day buying a baby will be as illegal as any other form of human trafficking.

Chipschaos · 08/07/2026 22:15

Ethically and morally wrong.
"Parental order form" sounds fucking horrendous.

HappilyHarriet · 08/07/2026 22:16

I thought PO stood for ‘purchase order’!

FKAT · 08/07/2026 23:03

Imagine commissioning a human being to order, and being too cheap to cover legal costs.

lemonVerbenaMintsorbet · 08/07/2026 23:09

aberamagold · 24/04/2026 11:53

Please just don't do it.
Apart from the ethics of putting a woman through the substantial health risks of pregnancy to fulfil someone else's desires, you would be deliberately creating a baby with the intention of removing it from its mother. It's cruel.

It may be OP egg so biologically her child ?

Oliwiaa · 08/07/2026 23:15

lemonVerbenaMintsorbet · 08/07/2026 23:09

It may be OP egg so biologically her child ?

The baby won't know that.

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

KissKissByeBye · 09/07/2026 00:36

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

Nothing gives you the right to commission a human being to purchase.

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:39

Purchase? That is illegal in UK

ExOptimist · 09/07/2026 00:41

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

There's no right to have a child. Sometimes you just have to accept that your life will be child free, however hard that is.

Surrogacy should be banned in Britain as it already is in many European countries e g. France, Germany, Spain.

PatioSitter · 09/07/2026 09:20

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

Meeee!!

Have never hired a woman’s body or purchased a newborn, though.

arethereanyleftatall · 09/07/2026 09:49

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

It’s a consideration of the actual human being being bought - the baby - rather than just the adult themselves.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 09/07/2026 09:51

Hellohowareyou112 · 09/07/2026 00:34

Very surprised at tone of these replies - how many of the respondents have suffered infertility themselves?

Have you bought a baby?

Ipsevenenabibas · 09/07/2026 09:53

I genuinely do not wish you the best with this abhorrent endeavour.

Hellohowareyou112 · 10/07/2026 22:31

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 09/07/2026 09:51

Have you bought a baby?

No

ThisAmpleCritic · 10/07/2026 22:37

FKAT · 08/07/2026 23:03

Imagine commissioning a human being to order, and being too cheap to cover legal costs.

My exact thoughts.

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