do you mind if your dh tells you you've put weight on?

[brimfull]

I always ask my dh to and he refuses

bloody scaredy cat

you see my dh does admit he wants me to lose weight and be more like the size i was when we got married,(i am about 4 stone heavier!).
He just tells the truth- friends in real life have said they can't believe i am not furious but if he put on 4 stone i would be making him lose weight!!! So I can't complain really.