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Do you resemble your DP/DH s previous wife/partner?

42 replies

bebesequin · 27/10/2009 19:52

Probaly the wrong place to post this- but a friend met DHs ex today and commented how similar we are in looks - DH obviously has a'type' and I just wondered if anyone else had come accross this?
Is it a male thing as none of my old flames are remotely alike?
Just curious

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twopeople · 27/10/2009 21:06

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MaggieBruja · 28/10/2009 07:47

what does nasally challenged mean?? too small nose? too big nose?!

WoTmania · 28/10/2009 08:59

Nope, or his mother.
My brothers' GFs however look very similar and one of them has the same colouring as my mum (well they both do but one more so than the other)
I think people probably have a hard time working out family relationships when we're all out en mass.

Chandon · 28/10/2009 10:43

No.

Thank God!

Ex was blond and curvy and feminine.

I am dark, tall and....ehm...."tough-feminine" .

Not a nice thing of this "friend" to say, It doesn´t exactly make you feel special, does it ?!

sayanything · 28/10/2009 11:13

Yes, although I'm obviously a better-looking version.

My DH definitely has a type - the one Clooney is partial to, so I look like this.

cazinski · 28/10/2009 11:27

Good lord, I hope not... she is a bit dumpy, frizzy hair that always looks like it needs a good cut and dresses in surfy clothes- and (shudder) CROCS!

morningpaper · 28/10/2009 11:30

No, my DH's wife looked like Julia Roberts at her best whereas I look like Ronnie Corbet.

My DH so resembled my brother that he was occaionally mistaken for him which made me feel like a total pervert for basically sleeping with my own brother

CybilAviationAuthority · 28/10/2009 11:32

I'm MILES better looking than anyone he's ever been out with. But I'm def in the same 'box' as the others, colours wise

JustAnotherManicMummy · 28/10/2009 11:35

Friends at my wedding mentioned they'd had quite a long chat with DH's dad. This was strange as FIL is not the chatty type...

Turns out every one of them had been talking about my dad. So you're in good company MP... expect mine's my dad

Biobytes · 28/10/2009 11:44

Oh yes, I look like the two previous one and his new partner looks like me.

TrickOrTrefusis · 28/10/2009 11:49

There's a basic similarity - dark hair, distinctive eyes, same general style (to the point where, on a recent occasion when we met, we were dressed almost identically . She's a bit taller and bigger, I'm five years older.

Dh and my ex also have the same basic physical type, but chalk and cheese when it comes to personality. Both nice guys, just very different.

ABitHaloweenBatty · 28/10/2009 11:50

LOL@ some funny replies! My DP's ex was 5'11", 20 stone and an accountant,living in a posh part of Leeds.
I on the other hand was a single mum living in a council house with 2 children when we met, never had a serious job, 5'1" and half the ex's size. So completley different!

TheDevilEatsBabies · 28/10/2009 11:52

i hope not: the other one was old and fat and weird looking. (he must have been desperate )

although, i met up some time ago with a "friend" of mine (was never a boyfriend, we just used to snog a lot) ata wedding and he was with his new girlfriend, who looked scarily like me.

it was like something out of the twilight zone.
i like to think it's because he never got over me

LaurieScaryCake · 28/10/2009 11:52

Just asked DH - he said his type is 'pretty ones, not so keen on the ugly ones. And I struck gold with you'

GetOrfMoiLand · 28/10/2009 11:54

I am six foot, anaemically pale with blonde hair, size 10-12, average looks.

DP's x girlfriend was Indian ethnicity, 5 foot 2, big boobs, very pretty.

His ex ex was German, average height, red hair, stunningly beautiful (looks like the model Gisele Bunschen)

His ex ex ex has very dark hair, pale skin, average height and rosy cheeks, very good looking and very lovely (we are friends).

DP has no type as such. I used to have a type (tall, dark) and DP breaks the mould in being the only bloke with blonde hair I have ever been out with.

TrickOrTrefusis · 28/10/2009 11:56

Oh, hang on - I didn't read the question properly. The lovely lady in my description above is the one who my ex married.

My dh was but a sweet young thing when I met him, and only had one previous proper GF, who I've never met. But we were a bit on-and-off in the early years, and from the various casual flings that he paraded in front of me on those occasions, I worked out that he likes women who look pretty much like me. Except fatter.

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