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Status but every day handbag

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MademoisellePraline · 29/08/2026 23:09

I've decided to treat myself, but I don't know where to start.

Firstly I don't know what else to call the kind of bag I'm after, hence "status" bag. I like Chanel, LV, which I know some fashionistas like to sneer at, so please, if that's you, respect that we all have different preferences.

I'm looking for a lovely every day bag, that I don't look stupid with on the school run etc. We live rurally, and didn't before, so all my Chanel and LV with chain straps etc would look majorly over done and I'd feel ridiculous wandering round town on casual shop with one. I do sometimes take my neverful but I'd like something much smaller. Slouchy and comfy as opposed to stiff leather.

What's a casual but still "status" bag that I could go for? I don't like massive gold logos etc like the GG Gucci bags, or the ones with big YSLs down the front. I would like it to be recognisable as branded, but from close up, not from across the street if you see what I mean.

Thank you.

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Newscastle · 02/09/2026 07:02

I bought a beautiful Anya Hindmarch Maxi Zip satchel preloved. It’s perfect. Gorgeous leather, great every day size, very understated. Lots of different colours too. So much less obvious than some of the others mentioned

BebbanburgIsMine · 02/09/2026 15:44

certainlycertain · 01/09/2026 23:14

Mind you, I think all designer stuff is hideous, not my thing at all.

My mind is actually blown at the thought of a blanket statement that all designer stuff is hideous. That's quite, um, all-encompassing. Do you include Alexander McQueen's final collection in that? I think it's pretty stunning.

I had to Google that, and oh my goodness!

From what I saw, that is beyond hideous, do normal people actually wear that stuff?

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:50

BebbanburgIsMine · 02/09/2026 15:44

I had to Google that, and oh my goodness!

From what I saw, that is beyond hideous, do normal people actually wear that stuff?

No, but they're not meant to. It's art. And what normal people wear will be informed by it a couple years down the road.

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:51

OP, this came up in my net-a-porter preview this morning and I think it's gorgeous. Proenza Schouler and it comes in 4 colours.

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MintChocolate123 · 02/09/2026 16:45

@certainlycertain that is stunning

MademoisellePraline · 02/09/2026 16:55

Oh.

That's thrown a spanner in the works...

That's rather nice indeed.

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Goldbar26 · 02/09/2026 17:07

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:51

OP, this came up in my net-a-porter preview this morning and I think it's gorgeous. Proenza Schouler and it comes in 4 colours.

Oh my gosh, that’s gorgeous.

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 17:23

This thread combined with my n-a-p preview today has been a very dangerous combination.

I'm now about to be the owner of one proenza schouler bag, and one commes de garçon jacket and shirt...

Think I'm going to hide the thread now 😳

*justifying the bag by the fact I don't own any green ones.

EleanorMc67 · 02/09/2026 17:31

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 17:23

This thread combined with my n-a-p preview today has been a very dangerous combination.

I'm now about to be the owner of one proenza schouler bag, and one commes de garçon jacket and shirt...

Think I'm going to hide the thread now 😳

*justifying the bag by the fact I don't own any green ones.

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That bag is very beautiful. I wear a lot of green - when you're bored of it I can send you my address? I'll cover the postage ... 😁☘️

MademoisellePraline · 02/09/2026 17:53

When it arrives, can you let me know if it's heavy?

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certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 18:02

MademoisellePraline · 02/09/2026 17:53

When it arrives, can you let me know if it's heavy?

Will do. I'm away until Tuesday, so have it scheduled to be delivered after that. I have to say, the black looks really luxe too. I like the contrasting interior colour.

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Ceramiq · 02/09/2026 18:17

friedaklein · 01/09/2026 10:09

I have bags that are handmade in India by some of the same suppliers that supply the big names, but with less of a markup. I buy directly from leatherworkers as I visit India once every couple of years.

There are beautiful bags made in workshops in France and Italy from the very best leathers that cost a fraction of the price of the luxury brands - indeed, you can order bags to the colour you wish and other personalized features.

Justsomethoughts23 · 02/09/2026 18:30

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 18:02

Will do. I'm away until Tuesday, so have it scheduled to be delivered after that. I have to say, the black looks really luxe too. I like the contrasting interior colour.

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This bag is so gorgeous!

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 02/09/2026 19:38

Ceramiq · 02/09/2026 18:17

There are beautiful bags made in workshops in France and Italy from the very best leathers that cost a fraction of the price of the luxury brands - indeed, you can order bags to the colour you wish and other personalized features.

Please tell me names & addresses.

DancingNotDrowning · 02/09/2026 20:49

EleanorMc67 · 02/09/2026 17:31

That bag is very beautiful. I wear a lot of green - when you're bored of it I can send you my address? I'll cover the postage ... 😁☘️

I just went to buy the green and it’s not currently available. Not on the PS website either.

devastated 😭

DancingNotDrowning · 02/09/2026 20:51

@certainlycertain did you buy the green?

Trying to work out whether it’s sold out or not released?

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 20:59

DancingNotDrowning · 02/09/2026 20:51

@certainlycertain did you buy the green?

Trying to work out whether it’s sold out or not released?

I bought the green, but it was on my net-a-porter preview today. It should be on the regular site tomorrow. It didn't say low stock, which it would have if it was selling out on the preview.

DancingNotDrowning · 02/09/2026 21:11

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 20:59

I bought the green, but it was on my net-a-porter preview today. It should be on the regular site tomorrow. It didn't say low stock, which it would have if it was selling out on the preview.

Interesting - it said unavailable and wouldn’t let me add to wish list.

it doesn’t appear at all on PS site. Will check net a porter tomorrow

nearlylovemyusername · 03/09/2026 00:06

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:50

No, but they're not meant to. It's art. And what normal people wear will be informed by it a couple years down the road.

You prompted me googling as well, thank you for posting about it here, I learned something new.
Completely agree, it's art, and it's absolutely stunning.

maxslice · 03/09/2026 00:25

Prada.

SulkingInTheCatio · 03/09/2026 06:19

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:51

OP, this came up in my net-a-porter preview this morning and I think it's gorgeous. Proenza Schouler and it comes in 4 colours.

That is beautiful. Sadly in my house would be covered in cat hair 😂

Just realised today that John Lewis sell pre owned high end handbags. They have some nice ones in currently.

MintChocolate123 · 03/09/2026 09:48

certainlycertain · 02/09/2026 15:50

No, but they're not meant to. It's art. And what normal people wear will be informed by it a couple years down the road.

This reminds me of Meryl’s speech in the devil wears Prada when Andie is sneering at the fashion chat

friedaklein · 03/09/2026 10:00

The Proenza Schouler is lovely and unusual.

Papyrophile · 03/09/2026 14:05

DancingNotDrowning · 30/08/2026 21:27

i’ve been searching for the perfect tote since Celine discontinued their phantom cabas tote which was the best ever slouchy, soft, under the radar tote I’ve ever owned.

I’m currently trialing the Gucci softbit maxi - I don’t think it’s available online at the moment but if there’s one available globally they’ll send to your local store/concession.

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Have a look at the Danish company, Naledi Copenhagen. One of their styles is a ringer for the cabas tote. And less £££ than Phoebe Philo.

certainlycertain · 03/09/2026 14:21

DancingNotDrowning · 02/09/2026 21:11

Interesting - it said unavailable and wouldn’t let me add to wish list.

it doesn’t appear at all on PS site. Will check net a porter tomorrow

Were you able to order it @DancingNotDrowning?

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