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pub / going out outfit for 18 year old who lives in jeans and tshirts

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Chesticles · 18/08/2026 10:27

DD (18) is heading off to university. She asked me last night what sort of things she should buy in case she goes to the pub with her flatmates/course mates. I said I would look for some stuff and send her links. She is not a party girl at all, doesn't wear make up, has been to a few house parties, but never been to a pub. She wants something to wear so that in the first few weeks if everyone is going out, she can go along and fit in. I won't imagine she will be clubbing, she hates very crowded places with loud noise.

Normally she wears leggings and a baggy t-shirt. In the last year she has branched out to wide leg casual trousers, and some wide leg jeans. Still with cotton t shirts. She exclusively wears trainers, even to prom she wore trainers under her floor length dress. She likes soft fabrics, hates anything lacey or itchy.

She is size 10-12, 5'7" and has quite a large bust.

She doesn't like fast fashion (shein or asos) as she disagrees with the environmental impact of clothes that are only worn a few times and then fall apart.

I know she is 18, and at this age what mum suggests probably isn't helpful, but she did ask for my advice, and just wants a couple of staples in her wardrobe so that she can fit in. If anyone can send me a few links for websites that would have some appropriate things, I'll forward them on to her. Thanks.

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Peonies12 · 19/08/2026 14:28

She's 18 and she's never been to a pub?? I'd leave her to shop herself once she gets there and sees what others are wearing.

Besidemyselfwithworry · 19/08/2026 14:31

I went out afew weeks ago as it was a colleagues birthday and I had one trainers with a jumpsuit. Yes I’m older (46)
but when you looked round, a lot of people had trainers on or flats and I think the era of going out in huge heels and wanting to chop your feet off may be a thing of the past!!!!!!!

Why don’t you take her out for a drink one evening into town to do some people watching and get some ideas? Back in the day all the teen magazines had fashion pages but I don’t think that’s so much of a thing now either.

Moreholidaysthanjudithchalmers · 19/08/2026 14:37

Peonies12 · 19/08/2026 14:28

She's 18 and she's never been to a pub?? I'd leave her to shop herself once she gets there and sees what others are wearing.

Mine went out without an hour of arrival. Flatmates were knocking on door Fri evening as we were still unpacking. I think having one outfit she’s happy with is sensible so she feels ok from start.

OvernightBloats · 19/08/2026 14:38

sweetpickle2 · 18/08/2026 12:33

Wide leg trousers or jeans are fine, either with a baggy tee for an overall oversized look or a vest top/baby tee. Trainers fine.

I live in a university city and that's what all the students here wear. Some pic examples attached.

This is what the majority of students are wearing now. It is very casual. Baggy jeans and baggy joggers, tighter tops underneath baggy sweatshirts.

The look is about comfort rather than style! Your daughter can get more clothes once she has spent more time at university and found her tribe.

fortyfifty · 19/08/2026 15:14

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 18/08/2026 17:33

Fgs take her to a pub.

😀Good plan. Go to any Wetherspoons at the moment and they will be full of post A level students on summer holidays enjoying cheap drinks.

TheAnnoyingSatsuma · 19/08/2026 15:35

Ooh. Get her to download the ‘spoons app so she can order a drink to her table if going to the bar is too overwhelming Smile

IcePrincesss · 19/08/2026 16:01

chirrupybird · 18/08/2026 10:59

Sounds like jeans and a tee shirt, maybe a fancier tee shirt, maybe heels rather than trainers.

Uni students don’t wear heels 😅

Unless they’re the really girly makeup going out types that go to fancy clubs with dress codes. Which it doesn’t sound like the OP’s daughter is.

Ophy83 · 19/08/2026 16:02

I lecture at a uni. Jeans/t-shirt/converse will be fine. Most students go for super comfy clothes. Some wear extremely wide leg joggers (iet frans) with tiny little t-shirts, others dress up a bit more. No one really bats an eyelid at what anyone else is wearing.

I would say urban outfitters might be a place to look if she wants a couple of new things now (or a vintage shop if you have some good ones near you), and maybe a bit of extra ££ so she can go shopping in her uni city.

redskyAtNigh · 19/08/2026 16:16

TheAnnoyingSatsuma · 19/08/2026 15:35

Ooh. Get her to download the ‘spoons app so she can order a drink to her table if going to the bar is too overwhelming Smile

I don't think 18 year olds go to the bar in Spoons. But that's a good idea for a "getting her used to being in the pub in a non-scary way"

Monty36 · 19/08/2026 17:29

Where is she going to University ? It makes a difference.

But please take her to a pub in the evening before she goes. Please !

LoyalAquaAnt · 19/08/2026 17:41

Peonies12 · 19/08/2026 14:28

She's 18 and she's never been to a pub?? I'd leave her to shop herself once she gets there and sees what others are wearing.

Was that really necessary?

LoyalAquaAnt · 19/08/2026 17:42

Chesticles · 19/08/2026 14:01

Thanks everyone. She's not mentioned it again, she is currently focused on a trip with her pals to ikea at the weekend.

She has a couple of pairs of converse, and plenty of jeans. A couple of 'nice' tshirts or closer fitting tshirts and I think she'll be fine.

She has been to restaurant/pubs with us on holiday etc. But you are right, I need to take her into a pub and make her order something at the bar, just so she is a bit more familiar with it. She's fine in coffee shops :)

For those who asked its an east coast scottish uni. Glasgow is pretty dressy I think, but Edinburgh/Dundee/Aberdeen/StAndrews less so I think.

Will she be familiar with ways to avoid drink spiking?

I'm sure she'll have a great time!

TheAnnoyingSatsuma · 20/08/2026 14:00

redskyAtNigh · 19/08/2026 16:16

I don't think 18 year olds go to the bar in Spoons. But that's a good idea for a "getting her used to being in the pub in a non-scary way"

@redskyAtNighsorry I don’t understand your comment.

RampantIvy · 20/08/2026 14:03

sweetpickle2 · 18/08/2026 12:33

Wide leg trousers or jeans are fine, either with a baggy tee for an overall oversized look or a vest top/baby tee. Trainers fine.

I live in a university city and that's what all the students here wear. Some pic examples attached.

DD is a student and pretty much wears what you have shown (except for the tiny vest top).

redskyAtNigh · 20/08/2026 14:47

TheAnnoyingSatsuma · 20/08/2026 14:00

@redskyAtNighsorry I don’t understand your comment.

I mean they just use the App in Spoons. I don't think 18 years olds go to the bar if there is an alternative option.

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