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Advice on simple funeral outfit for mid-August in west Scotland

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jamimmi · 21/07/2026 14:50

Need advice on what to wear for my dads funeral, west scotland in mid august. Im 5ft size 14 dont do frills / fuss and want somthing dark but not black. I wear a uniform for work, have nothing on my wardobe as normally favour very casual reds, greens, purples and some black. Any ideas for simple dress/ jumpsuit and jacket plus shoes ,dont think my addias sambas or wedge sandles will cut it. I like.nobodies child, fat face with some zara and next normally. Brains a bit scrambled so help needed

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Itsnouse · 21/07/2026 15:44

I’m sorry for your loss. It is difficult to find the right degree of formality for these occasions. Had you considered a print on a black ground? My Mum used to wear something like that to funerals. I see Fatface have this one in your size in petit. It has sleeves so I hope it would be wearable without a jacket in August. As for shoes I would choose a black ballet flat from somewhere like M&S.

Advice on simple funeral outfit for mid-August in west Scotland
jamimmi · 21/07/2026 16:01

Itsnouse · 21/07/2026 15:44

I’m sorry for your loss. It is difficult to find the right degree of formality for these occasions. Had you considered a print on a black ground? My Mum used to wear something like that to funerals. I see Fatface have this one in your size in petit. It has sleeves so I hope it would be wearable without a jacket in August. As for shoes I would choose a black ballet flat from somewhere like M&S.

Thanks, yes i had looked at tgat one but a bit too unstructured and "old" for me. Black ballet pumos a possibility though

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LilyForrest · 26/07/2026 09:32

Sorry for your loss. It's a horrible time & looking for a suitable outfit is the last thing you want to be doing.
For my mum's funeral this time last year I ordered a dress from Next petite. I can't remember the range but they had a decent selection and I felt comfortable & smart on the day without being over the top. Luckily I had a pair of suitable black shoes kicking about.
Hope you find something and look after yourself x

PatioDwellers · 26/07/2026 09:36

I’m sorry for your loss. How about instead of a jumpsuit wide leg black trousers, ballet flats and a black or polka dot shirt? www.marksandspencer.com/mesh-jersey-polka-dot-slash-neck-top/p/clp61226171?color=BlackMix&intid=mobile_app_pdp_share

jamimmi · 29/07/2026 00:05

thanks all, sorry fornthe delayed response, i have found a lovlet boden dress which looks great and shoes form dune outlet.

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jamimmi · 29/07/2026 00:10

Puff Sleeve Ponte Midi Dress - Black | Boden UK https://share.google/3G9Grnjx3uU2KWM3c
this is it.in petite.

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Namechange546 · 29/07/2026 00:14

That's a great choice.

Sorry for your loss.

VivienneDelacroix · 29/07/2026 00:21

That will be perfect OP.

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