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Comfy strapless bra - does one exist??

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pollydollydoo · 31/05/2026 10:57

Really need to find a comfy, strapless bra for this summer, but no clue where to start!
For context, I have been pretty large in the bust department (d-e cup), but having had 2 children and lost 6 stone, everything is just pointing downward. I really need to buy some nice summer dresses to wear at home but also on an upcoming holiday. I keep seeing some lovely ones with little straps, but they would look horrid with my current bra straps showing.
I do have a strapless bra (from M&S and bought via the fitting service about 9 years ago) but it is possibly THE MOST uncomfortable thing I own. I’ve done some looking online, but really have no idea what brands actually follow through on their promise of a comfy, supportive, strapless option.
Can anyone recommend somewhere for me to try?

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watchingthishtread · 31/05/2026 10:59

I put a lot of time and effort into finding one and have come to the conclusion that it doesn't exist.

DawnBreaks · 01/06/2026 16:59

I agree with this! They are THE most uncomfortable items of clothing ! Why are they always so damn scratchy and full of bones and wires!
I'm about to send back a couple I ordered from M&S as they are just weirdly shaped things!
I've been tempted by these. They have good reviews. https://conturve.com/products/convertible-strapless-bandeau-bra
Anyone any other comfortable suggestions please?

Conturve | Convertible Strapless Bandeau Bra

Conturve Strapless Bandeau Bra – seamless, comfy, with anti-slip grip and optional adjustable straps. Perfect all-day support without discomfort.

https://conturve.com/products/convertible-strapless-bandeau-bra

lljp · 01/06/2026 17:46

Never found one I like. Why not try a strappy dress with built in bra? Google is your friend!

ChestyLaRue21 · 01/06/2026 18:07

A strapless breathable bodysuit works for me with a stick on bra underneath for extra lift if needed. The problem with strapless bras for me is the back strap carrying the weight of everything. It drags my whole back down and eventually the front with it! So uncomfortable

DawnBreaks · 01/06/2026 18:07

lljp · 01/06/2026 17:46

Never found one I like. Why not try a strappy dress with built in bra? Google is your friend!

But what about the dozen or so strappy dresses and the pile of thin strap vests I own. Not to mention the strapless boob tube type tops and strapless playsuits!

i will look in future for built in support though. Good tip.

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