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Help style my dress (please)

15 replies

MrsR87 · 20/04/2026 21:04

I had such great responses the last time I asked for help here, I thought I would come back for more.😍

How would you style this dress?
Black and gold option
I'm lucky enough to have been nominated for an award in my industry and so it is for the awards ceremony. It's the black and gold version. The gold detailing is quite a dark gold. I only have pale gold heels which didn't seem to really go but were also quite covered/chunky which I don't think helped either (just tried on for height ref 😊). That made me think perhaps black strappy heels but perhaps that's too boring, so I've circled back to gold - but I think would need to be a strong gold. Open to other ideas too! I'd love suggestions for a bag, shoes and accessories if anyone has any ideas.

For reference I am 5 foot 8, a size 12 and late 30s with long brunette hair. I was going to do a half up, half down style for my hair. I love the dress - it's very flattering and suits the event theme perfectly.

Thank you in advance for any help.

OP posts:
Dearover · 20/04/2026 21:06

Can't help on the shoes, but that looks lovely & sounds perfect. Congratulations & have a fabulous time

MrsR87 · 20/04/2026 21:12

Dearover · 20/04/2026 21:06

Can't help on the shoes, but that looks lovely & sounds perfect. Congratulations & have a fabulous time

Thank you. I’m really looking forward to it. 🥰

OP posts:
VictoriaEra · 20/04/2026 23:55

I would pick black shoes. Would be elegant but not detract from dress impact.

Steelworks · Yesterday 01:03

The dress is gorgeous.

i’d go for some black elegant shoes as well.

WinterCarlisle · Yesterday 06:35

LOVE the dress! What’s the quality like? I go to quite a lot of Punjabi weddings (I’m white British) and dresses like this are great for the parties. Lovely colours, too. I think I’d go for plain black strappy shoes. Congratulations! I hope you win!

Fiddlesticks1 · Yesterday 09:16

Before buying I would check reviews.

Pearlstillsinging · Yesterday 11:21

I would wear black shoes but carry a gold bag. It is a lovely looking dress but unless you have already bought it, I would wary of the quality at the price.

WonderingWanda · Yesterday 12:57

What is the length of the dress like on you? I'm 5'9 and find that long dresses can actually fall mid Calton me and look a bit daft if worn with heels. Something back and strappy would look best though.

Nonewnews · Yesterday 13:00

check reviews on trusted pilot

Fuchvyghfdmu5464 · Yesterday 15:38

Pearlstillsinging · Yesterday 11:21

I would wear black shoes but carry a gold bag. It is a lovely looking dress but unless you have already bought it, I would wary of the quality at the price.

I can only second this.

ImFinePMSL · Yesterday 16:16

Black shoes.
Black bag.
Minimal jewellery.

The dress is the main event! Gold shoes and bag would clash and look a bit tacky.

AuntChippy · Yesterday 19:04

I think I’d go for black shoes and bag and no or minimal jewellery. I also be sweating in 100% polyester, but that’s just me.

MrsClattenburg · Yesterday 19:15

Fiddlesticks1 · Yesterday 09:16

Before buying I would check reviews.

I think @MrsR87 has already bought it so no problems there?

Doggymummar · Today 15:10

5ne dress is busy so I wouldn't add to it I don't think

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