I'm (the mid-life bride) wearing this rixolondon.com/en-eu/products/novara-ivory for my summer garden wedding. Church first, then walk home to the garden for champagne etc. Very simple, summery, relaxed. I want heels for the church but sandals feels a bit disrespectful and shoes don't look right. Then in the garden it really needs to be flat-ish or I'll just sink in the lawn. But it's quite long on me so I do need a bit of comfortable height. I'm thinking gold or silver rather than white. Suggestions gratefully received!