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“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!

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BornIn · 15/04/2026 13:06

Surprise birthday trip to celebrate my birthday, but what do I wear?

Olive colouring, 5ft 2, size 6 bottoms/8-10 top/dress. Don’t like ditsy or animal prints. Size 3.5/4 shoes.

I want to feel stylish.

Happy with cost effective Vinted.

A bit panicked, too much choice and hopeless at putting outfits together.

Heeeelp me please!

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Pinkflamingo10 · 15/04/2026 15:13

I’ve recently bought this and love it
https://www.meandem.com/int/modern-tulip-print-bias-maxi-dress-pink-multi
edited to add -sorry I’ve just noticed you’re 5ft 2 so this will probs be too long ! Sorry

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I have a few things from ME + EM via Vinted and I feel stylish in all of them. And I rarely feel stylish. 😂 I think the fabrics/materials/cut are great and they feel like they will last forever.

Lotsofsnacks · 18/04/2026 11:54

Pointed sling backs either flat or kitten heel, cream tailored trousers, with a leather belt to enhance the outfit, and a black or brown waistcoat style top. Accessorise with a soft slouchy leather bag - similar all available cheaper on Vinted

“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!
“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!
“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!
“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!
Lotsofsnacks · 18/04/2026 12:02

Lotsofsnacks · 18/04/2026 11:54

Pointed sling backs either flat or kitten heel, cream tailored trousers, with a leather belt to enhance the outfit, and a black or brown waistcoat style top. Accessorise with a soft slouchy leather bag - similar all available cheaper on Vinted

Plus once worn at your dinner either item can be dressed down for summer - waistcoat with jeans, and cream trousers with white T shirt and trainers, so economical purchases that can be worn lots

SusieSmth4 · 18/04/2026 17:55

dicentra365 · 15/04/2026 15:12

This is in the sale and is in petite, which might be a better all round fit for your height:
Petite Lettie Dress | Hobbs UK |

This in velvet, also sale and petite:
Petite Violet Velvet Dress | Hobbs UK |

Purple velvet:
Petite Dormer Velvet Dress | Hobbs UK |

...essentially Hobbs have got loads of unpatterned petite fit dresses in the sale at the moment.

I love the purple velvet dress. Looks stylish as well as unfussy.

Holidaymodeon · 18/04/2026 20:13

BornIn · 15/04/2026 18:32

I’m not sure!

I know that Next petite always feels too short (body of dresses, trouser/jeans leg length, tops/arms).

So many petite ranges are all over the place. It’s hard enough with women’s clothing sizes anyway, then add in unique interpretations of petite for each and every item and it becomes a horror show.
Ive bought petite maxi skirts longer than any regular sized maxi skirt, and they often have weird sleeves and cut smaller as well as shorter, so a petite 12 is actually a smaller than normal 10, or that’s my experience anyway.

Hereagain2 · 18/04/2026 20:21

BornIn · 15/04/2026 15:08

Great brand, love cord and the colour. I don’t like the neckline. Vinted have quite a few options, nothing quite right at the minute, but I will keep an eye, thanks.

I feel that particular dress maybe a bit wintery for next week, with temperatures 16-18 degrees and sunny.

If you’re coming to Cumbria take absolutely no notice of the weather forecast 🫣 it’s all lies!!!

EleanorMc67 · 19/04/2026 13:22

anon2022anon · 18/04/2026 20:43

This is a Vinted link for a stunning rixo dress that I have in another size and I love. It feels glamorous on, but it's quite understated and classy.
https://www.vinted.co.uk/items/7927300075-rixo-london-cindy-midi-wrap-dress-black-crepe-peony-flora-border-xs-uk-8-worn-once

I googled that one as it looks lovely. I'm not a fan of Rixo in its entirety, but bits & pieces are lovely. Their prints don't often hit the mark for me, especially the mixed print dresses. The pieces I like best are their wedding clothing!

That is a really nice shape though. I love kimono dresses/jackets, have quite a few, & completely get why you feel glamorous in it. I always do too!!

@BornIn - a better image. It's not so obviously Rixo as other dresses of theirs. And would work for lots of other occasions.

“I never ‘FEEL’ stylish. Please help me with an outfit for my birthday dinner in a luxury hotel. Vinted options a bonus. Thank you!
EleanorMc67 · 19/04/2026 20:19

Did you order the Autograph green/brown dress, @BornIn ?? Curious to know if it worked well for you - assuming you're returning to the thread!

Ignore the unhelpful stuff - lots of people have posted advice, some of which hopefully has been helpful for you?

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