Yes, it’s because it’s mainly women doing it. And they judge other women more harshly than they judge men.
But they do also judge men.
women judge other women’s clothes, their weight, their hair, their make up choices, their shoes, their food choices, their parenting choices.
it’s women who do this.
men will judge women, in a is she shaggable or not way, but thays as far as it goes, they don’t sit and criticise their skirt being not fashionable or wearing high heels, or hair an unflattering colour.
all these things come from women.
and then in the same breath they complain they are being judged more than men.
someone make it make sense.