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Help me decide which shoe?

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user976532456 · 07/04/2026 11:07

Either? Or neither?

Help me decide which shoe?
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ThatLilacTiger · 07/04/2026 18:55

7238SM · 07/04/2026 11:11

Being totally honest, they look like something my grandfather would have donated to a charity shop.

The one without the bow thing is marginally better, but I just can't imagine anyone wearing them who isn't in their PJ's.

Glad I'm not the only one who thinks this! I was going to say they look like something that came out of a peat bog or some permafrost. Like you'd expect to find the rest of the old tattered outfit next to them. Seriously ugly, scruffy shoes.

letshavetea · 07/04/2026 18:57

What make are they?

PrimaniTu · 07/04/2026 19:03

They look much better on you than in the first picture.

I like the ones without the bow they suit you and look good.

They’re probably one of the nicest pair of loafers, style and colour wise, I’ve seen in a while and are much better than the boring black leather ones you see on Insta.

corblimeygvnr · 07/04/2026 19:04

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 07/04/2026 17:35

They look like shar pei dogs. Is that what you’re going for?

Yes 😂 that was my thought too.

SerenitySeeker4 · 07/04/2026 19:06

Neither

Silverbirchleaf · 07/04/2026 19:07

The one without the knit are okay.,

user976532456 · 07/04/2026 19:35

Tontostitis · 07/04/2026 18:50

It's a quote from Buffy and I quite like them

Edited

Apologies! Been a long time since I've watched Buffy 😊

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user976532456 · 07/04/2026 19:37

@PrimaniTu Sadly that's not me - it's the model. I'll try to take a photo on me later.

@letshavetea The knotted ones are Bottega Veneta and the penny loafer is YSL

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Griselinia · 07/04/2026 19:41

The tan ones look more 'normal' and sensible and boring yet chic enough. The greyish ones are more interesting. Fwiw I don't think either of them are bad and am not understanding the hate.

Princesspollyyy · 07/04/2026 19:44

I laughed out loud when I saw the shoes, i thought it was a joke.

Boty look like grandad’s slippers.

FirstDayonthePlanet · 07/04/2026 23:10

I bought the ones on the right last season in chocolate brown and returned them because they were really really uncomfortable. The big lumpy seam on the outside is also a big lumpy seam on the inside, unfortunately.

bigboykitty · 07/04/2026 23:15

I know they're in fashion but they're utterly disgusting. You have nice ankles (not a pervert) and they probably look as good as you as on anybody. The bumholes comment has killed me though. 😂 Are you sure you won't think of this every time you look at them?

patooties · 07/04/2026 23:48

I’m not sure they say ‘formal or business’ they are a bit sharpei slipper arsehole megamix. I’m watching as I’m trying to find ‘work’ shoes and hoping you can (so I can stop looking!)

corblimeygvnr · 08/04/2026 12:40

I know I watch too many crime programmes as they made me think of these.

Help me decide which shoe?
Sidebeforeself · 08/04/2026 12:42

They are not attractive at all in my opinion, even in the better photos.

Sidebeforeself · 08/04/2026 12:43

patooties · 07/04/2026 23:48

I’m not sure they say ‘formal or business’ they are a bit sharpei slipper arsehole megamix. I’m watching as I’m trying to find ‘work’ shoes and hoping you can (so I can stop looking!)

Arsehole megamix! 😂

OvernightBloats · 08/04/2026 12:52

I think if I saw someone wearing these, I would assume that they have forgotten to change out of their slippers before leaving the house. Suede is such high maintenance as well - looks gorgeous brand new until it is marked.

If you love them though, go for it. But be prepared for someone to make a comment about slippers!

zebrastripesarefun · 08/04/2026 12:57

I have the tan ones as I have slim ankles and need a high front to stay on. They are super comfortable They don’t look big on

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 08/04/2026 13:00

user976532456 · 07/04/2026 11:39

Better photos

I prefer these! And I like actually rather like them.

Are they the epitome of style? No.

But they look quite nice, comfortable and are just “stylish / business” enough to work as business casual (at least where I work).

The suede won’t stay looking like this, however! But if you take care of it (and use a soft brush) it will last longer than one might expect. At least ime.

user976532456 · 08/04/2026 14:36

zebrastripesarefun · 08/04/2026 12:57

I have the tan ones as I have slim ankles and need a high front to stay on. They are super comfortable They don’t look big on

Thank you!

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user976532456 · 13/04/2026 11:37

Resurrecting the ugly loafer thread. I think I've narrowed it down to these - updated opinions?

Help me decide which shoe?
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patooties · 13/04/2026 13:23

The one with the snaffle. I’m not a fan of the puckering / Cornish pasty effect on the others.

patooties · 13/04/2026 13:23

Where’s the snaffle one from? I’m interested in some!

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RaraRachael · 13/04/2026 14:37

Neither. They look like the moccasin slippers my parents wore in the 70s

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