Help: I need a smart watch that does all these things

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And that is not an apple watch (I had one and gave it away as I found the battery wouldn’t even last until the evening!).

I am not sporty but need to lose weight and I try to stay moderately active despite my desk job and parenting duties. This means one or two dance classes a week and hitting 10K steps.
I want a nice looking watch that helps me keep track of my steps (and maybe encourages me to move if I am behind), workouts, calories etc. Something that looks stylish, not a fitbit, not an apple watch and easy to use with a long battery life.
Does such thing exist? I was looking at the Garmin Lily but is it a bit of a waste for someone like me (not a real sporty person)?

A garmin vivosmart would do this though not sure it’s particularly stylish.

Why not a Fitbit out of interest? Battery life is excellent and the dashboard is easy.

I’d like something that looks a bit more like a watch as opposed to a narrow wristband basically

I wanted similar to you, mainly just for step counting and activity tracking rather than anything fancy. I got an amazfit GTS mini - as the face is smaller than a lot of others out there.
Is it more the actual watch face or the strap you're worried about? As most of them you can remove the straps they come with and replace with something more jewellery-like, or at least more aesthetically pleasing. I just bought some fabric ones for my watch.
I think amazfit do some round faces ones too now - and they seem to be a lot cheaper than the fancy branded Samsung / apple etc ones.

Also it lasts about 2 weeks between charges if that helps!

I don't have this but saw it earlier on amazon and thought it looked like a bargain.

https://amzn.eu/d/09YNLmYf

Oura Ring!

I just ditched Google and went garmin.
This is so pretty in pink. Battery life amazing

Much cheaper prices if you shop around

https://www.garmin.com/en-GB/p/873214/

https://www.boots.com/amazfit-active-2-amoled-round-smartwatch-black-sport-silicone-strap-1-32-inch-10366359
I have this one its great battery life, easy to use app and you can link it to my fitness pal if you want.

Garmin lily

I bought one of these a few months ago after having a series of fitbits, got fed up of them not lasting more than a couple of years, the last one stopped charging.
Decided to try something cheaper, wasn’t expecting much but I’ve been surprised how good it is.
You can choise different faces, one looks like a ‘normal’ watch face, or add your own photo.
I got the gold metal band one.
The app works great & it does everything the Fitbit did.
There’s a 25% off voucher too.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/FitpoloSmartWatch/page/AF21BED3-C123-48C4-8AC9-07E945BBEF1C?lp_asin=B0FWQD99TS&ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_ast_store_CYE8TZQF373NPVBMBTD0

The Fitbit Versa range looks similar to an Apple Watch. I have one and it does all the things you list and the battery lasts ages!

Anyone has experience with a Garmin?