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A fun wedding guest one

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Flopsy145 · 01/10/2025 11:03

I'm going to a wedding next month with a guest fancy dress/theme we can lean into as much as we like, I want to be on theme but not in fancy dress. This is the brief:
Corsetry
Versailles
Fairy
Romance novels
A midsummer night's dream

Essentially super whimsical and romantic.

I could desperately do with some ideas please. 💕Budget is under £100, love cool tones, size 14 with long brown hair and pale neutral skin, nothing body con on the lower tummy!

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TheOtherBear · 01/10/2025 12:38

With that brief I'd be heading for my nearest (and biggest) Monsoon, going to their occasion dresses, and just trying SO MANY things on.

I don't think I've shopped in Monsoon more than half a dozen times in my whole life so far, but that brief is exactly the kind of thing I'd say it's made for.

DoubtfulCat · 01/10/2025 12:59

I think I’d lean into suitable accessories- flowers in your hair, festival type corset/cloak/cape/cardigan. Maybe see if there’s something on Vinted that you could build an outfit around?

Justyouwaitandseeagain · 01/10/2025 20:09

Some fun options by Lace and Beads via ASOS..

ETA - link won't work so you might need to google

One example (which seems like Midsummer Nights Dream to me)

https://www.asos.com/lace-beads/lace-beads-bow-shoulder-tiered-tulle-maxi-dress-in-olive/prd/208814837?_gl=11onxdx2_upMQ.._gs*MQ..&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7t7gltmDkAMVd5xQBh02IwTXEAQYDSABEgIgYPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAADqFjODUn9gOk8DTFbkBBU6pa1Z1E#colourWayId-208814839

Geneticsbunny · 01/10/2025 22:54

@savourthecrumpet that is so beautiful that I am wondering if i can just make up an event so I have an excuse to buy it.

mrschocolatte · 01/10/2025 23:03

This feels very whimsical and romantic OP. Just a little over budget.

mrschocolatte · 01/10/2025 23:09

Ok, my link didn’t work for some reason. It was a Needle and Thread Dress on Vinted. I will try and upload a photo instead.

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BlueTongueSkink · 01/10/2025 23:57

Geneticsbunny · 01/10/2025 22:54

@savourthecrumpet that is so beautiful that I am wondering if i can just make up an event so I have an excuse to buy it.

Yes me too! Love it 😍

Flopsy145 · 02/10/2025 11:46

Thank you all some super lovely suggestions will have a look through (and possibly try and source via vinted haha)

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StrawberryPi · 01/10/2025 11:32

I wore this to a wedding recently, and got SO MANY complements.

It's not corseted, but the bodice shape is kind of corset-ish.

Size 14 here for less than £100 second hand:
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/136044131738?itmmeta=01K6FN8CT7E8K7322JQ70M5T82&hash=item1facdcb59a:g:yEoAAeSw6SRoWCwg

God that's BEAUTIFUL

Flopsy145 · 02/10/2025 15:06

So I re read the invite and it also had theatrical glamour on the list so I went a bit rogue as I stumbled upon this on vinted for £25! It's corseted, a flattering skirt, and a bit edgy with the feathers. Now to see if it fits 😂 thanks all!

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SwallowsandAmazonians · 02/10/2025 15:10

Wow that's perfect

DoubtfulCat · 02/10/2025 16:16

YES @Flopsy145 !!

Flopsy145 · 07/10/2025 22:44

Update, a lovely dress but sadly wildly too small. I have a wide rib cage and sizing up would mean it would be too loose elsewhere so back to the drawing board unfortunately! Will revisit some of these options although I've found these which look nice (lace and beads one on vinted though)
https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/naomi-maxi-dress-in-lilac-floral

https://m.shein.co.uk/Faeriesty-Faeriesty-Luxe-Gorgeous-Elegant-Off-Shoulder-Netted-Evening-Gown-With-High-Slit-Design-Luxury-Formal-Wear-For-Black-Tie-Galas-Forest-Green-Weddings-And-Epic-Dance-Parties-p-35254162.html?detail_business_from=store&imgRatio=3-4&isFromSwitchColor=1&main_attr=27_334&mallCode=1&pageListType=4&sceneFlag=&shouldNoSendMallCode=1&showFeedbackRec=1&src_identifier=tn%3Dpage_search%60ci%3D-%60ct%3D%E6%97%B6%E5%B0%9A%E5%BA%97%E9%93%BA%E5%86%85%E5%AE%B9%E4%BD%93%60cs%3D-%60si%3D-%60ps%3D23%60jc%3D-_-%60cate_id%3D-&src_module=infoflow&src_tab_page_id=page_search1759783940998

Naomi Maxi Dress in Lilac Floral

Lace & Beads Naomi Maxi Dress in Lilac Floral. Turn heads in the Naomi Maxi Dress, a floaty dream in lilac floral mesh. With a plunging V-neckline, ruffled shoulders, and layered tiers that move with you, it’s all about effortless romance and laid-...

https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/naomi-maxi-dress-in-lilac-floral

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