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trustmygut · 18/08/2025 13:39

Hi All .. long time lurker on this forum and I have gotten a lot of inspiration from previous threads and now I'm looking for help. I have a wedding in October and have bought this dress but at a loss on what colours to accessorize with (bag & shoes) .. any ideas???

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Lifeinthepit · 18/08/2025 15:06

Love that. I would not detract from the gorgeous colour and style. Maybe large gold earrings and gold bracelet but nothing fancy. I like the shoes they have in the photo.

hangerup · 18/08/2025 20:03

what colouring are you & what's your hair like.

hangerup · 18/08/2025 20:04

i agree the dress should be the standout

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 19/08/2025 08:41

Lifeinthepit · 18/08/2025 15:06

Love that. I would not detract from the gorgeous colour and style. Maybe large gold earrings and gold bracelet but nothing fancy. I like the shoes they have in the photo.

Absolutely not.

Small stud earrings, silver, pearl or gold. Bracelet only if it's one you always wear and it's not clunky.

The shoes the model is wearing are fine, although personally I'd wear lower heels than that.

trustmygut · 19/08/2025 09:10

hangerup · 18/08/2025 20:03

what colouring are you & what's your hair like.

I've typically very pale Irish skin - might get a light spray tan to remove the blue hues and blonde hair in a short bob!

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trustmygut · 19/08/2025 09:11

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 19/08/2025 08:54

I'd wear something like these or maybe in green, red or pink.

LK Bennett Audrey

So far as a bag, bags don't interest me and at weddings etc as they spend most of their time under the table, it's not something I'd give thought to, so any small bag, any colour- black patent, or red or pink leather or navy leather

Thank you - I was thinking pink, but green might be interesting!

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SpecialMilkMonitor · 19/08/2025 09:27

I wonder if pink might not be too candy floss for October? I agree you wouldn’t want anything that distracts from the quite magnificent dress (thank you for bringing the designer to my attention!) so maybe a dark plum or similar?

Anyway, I’d probably want to choose something from here:

Dear Frances

or here:

Le Monde Beryl

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 19/08/2025 09:31

trustmygut · 19/08/2025 09:10

I've typically very pale Irish skin - might get a light spray tan to remove the blue hues and blonde hair in a short bob!

Nooo tan. Your pale Irish skin is much nicer.!

trustmygut · 19/08/2025 09:55

SpecialMilkMonitor · 19/08/2025 09:27

I wonder if pink might not be too candy floss for October? I agree you wouldn’t want anything that distracts from the quite magnificent dress (thank you for bringing the designer to my attention!) so maybe a dark plum or similar?

Anyway, I’d probably want to choose something from here:

Dear Frances

or here:

Le Monde Beryl

Oh thank you .. I do like these and the colour could work!! https://uk.dearfrances.com/products/balla-pump-chianti-mesh

Balla Pump, Chianti Mesh

Crafted from sheer Italian mesh and set on a cylindrical block heel. Leather wrapped and padded insole, buffed leather outsole and mid height leather heel.

https://uk.dearfrances.com/products/balla-pump-chianti-mesh

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SpecialMilkMonitor · 19/08/2025 10:03

You know, I considered those last night … and decided that S&B would crucify them! (Was also thinking that come October I would very much want to add socks to them …)

Alternatively, LMB has single handedly caused me to fall back in love with dainty little heels:

Babouche

trustmygut · 19/08/2025 10:06

SpecialMilkMonitor · 19/08/2025 10:03

You know, I considered those last night … and decided that S&B would crucify them! (Was also thinking that come October I would very much want to add socks to them …)

Alternatively, LMB has single handedly caused me to fall back in love with dainty little heels:

Babouche

They are gorgeous but I wouldn't be able to handle a kitten heel - I need something a bit sturdier! I love an "unusual" shoe - I'm not really a court shoe girl!

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SpecialMilkMonitor · 19/08/2025 10:12

Me neither!

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AlexandraJJ · 19/08/2025 10:50

I’d go metallics for accessories

TheLeadbetterLife · 20/08/2025 14:05

trustmygut · 19/08/2025 10:45

I do like these - I'm leaning towards burgundy/chianti! https://www.fabiani.ie/products/copy-v25-venecia-burdeos-marian

These are nice but I think too much with that (fabulous) dress—the buckles and patent finish will pull focus. Also not sure about burgundy. I love burgundy, but not with that shade of blue (unless jeans).

Lifeinthepit · 20/08/2025 20:37

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 19/08/2025 08:41

Absolutely not.

Small stud earrings, silver, pearl or gold. Bracelet only if it's one you always wear and it's not clunky.

The shoes the model is wearing are fine, although personally I'd wear lower heels than that.

"Absolutely not" ? What a peculiar and rather rude response.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 20/08/2025 21:33

TheLeadbetterLife · 20/08/2025 14:05

These are nice but I think too much with that (fabulous) dress—the buckles and patent finish will pull focus. Also not sure about burgundy. I love burgundy, but not with that shade of blue (unless jeans).

Agreed. You don't want anything to detract from the dress. Those shoes have too much going on and the heel is a bit clompy.

Silver would be better than gold jewellery.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 20/08/2025 21:35

Lifeinthepit · 20/08/2025 20:37

"Absolutely not" ? What a peculiar and rather rude response.

Big gold earrings with the collar and bow on that dress would be far too fussy. Silver would look much better than gold. The dress is great on its own. It doesn't need any more dressing up.

Lifeinthepit · 21/08/2025 06:53

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 20/08/2025 21:35

Big gold earrings with the collar and bow on that dress would be far too fussy. Silver would look much better than gold. The dress is great on its own. It doesn't need any more dressing up.

I think more polite to simply say what you think (in your own opinion) would look nice. We don't need to contradict others who may have a differing opinion so bluntly. There are no rules in fashion, after all.

Much nicer to be on Style and Beauty threads without the aggressive approach of the Politics threads. I'm sure you agree.

SpecialMilkMonitor · 21/08/2025 06:55

Why on earth shouldn’t posters contradict each other? Confused Are women who care about clothes such delicate flowers?

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