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Wedding guest dress

53 replies

Rockaroundthexmastree · 13/08/2025 18:53

Hi,
Just bought this off Vinted for upcoming do. I am not sure it does me any favours. Really wanted to like it 😭 I need a dress asap!

Wedding guest dress
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FluffyWabbit · 14/08/2025 05:02

Hi OP, it's the fishtail hem at the bottom which is making it awkward on you.

I would go for a skirt that doesn't have any hem or drop waist so that it skims all the way down from your waist with no break.

elm26 · 14/08/2025 09:09

PeonyPatch · 13/08/2025 22:26

That is gorgeous!!!

Beautiful isn’t it! Club L is my go to for formal and wedding guess dresses. It’s always amazing quality too.

Rockaroundthexmastree · 14/08/2025 15:13

bloodymary2025 · 14/08/2025 02:04

Your not an 8 or 10, the dress you posted in only dose no favours bc its ( at least) two sizes too small. Would look good otherwise.

I'm not just being mean. I understand 'comming back into your body' and it being several sizes bigger than when you 'left'.

But size up. Especially in this heat.

Edited

Thanks, I must remember to throw out all my other clothes that say otherwise and buy size 14 in everything based on one photo of a dress that is clearly very unflattering on my body shape. I have several pairs of size 6 jeans too - they must be pretending to be twice the size 🫣

I have put the pink dress back on Vinted and ordered some of the suggestions plus some off asos in a range of different styles so will update ☺️ Thankyou everyone

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LeticiaMorales · 14/08/2025 15:28

Send us a picture when you've decided!

Lifestooshort71 · 14/08/2025 16:39

GameOfJones · 13/08/2025 22:15

🙄 I note it's always the people that don't make their own suggestions that are rude about other people's......

Yes, I never know why they can't just say it wouldn't be their choice. Defo rude

Movinghouseatlast · 14/08/2025 16:46

Ghost have got some great dresses in the sale.

Missingmarbles1 · 16/08/2025 08:23

You have two choices, OP. You can believe the people who are trying to tell you the truth or you can look bigger than you are by squeezing into something too small.
You have a good shape and wearing the right sized clothes will show that off.
Just because you are an 8 in something vanity sized doesn't mean you will be 8s in other sizes.

Rockaroundthexmastree · 16/08/2025 18:13

First one to arrive in the post…

Wedding guest dress
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pushthebuttonnn · 16/08/2025 21:30

Love the lemon OP. I much prefer that dress. Are you happy with it?😊

Pigsinblankets13 · 16/08/2025 21:36

Gorgeous in yellow, colour really suits you! X

Catwoman8 · 16/08/2025 22:34

Yellow dress looks lovely OP 💛 the colour suits you much better too.

Ignore that rude poster who thinks she knows your body better than you 🙄 some dresses (regardless of dress size) just don't flatter.

sourdoughnogo · 16/08/2025 22:39

Looks so much better for you. You might want slightly different shoes

jamnpancakes · 16/08/2025 22:47

The pink dress is a definite no! Yellow dress much better but I'm not blown away by the colour .

weaselwords · 17/08/2025 20:51

Really suits you!

Gymbunny2025 · 17/08/2025 21:21

Colour suits you! Any others arrived?!

PeonyPatch · 17/08/2025 21:55

I love this yellow dress. I think it would look better with gold barely there shoes however! X

PinkZebraStripes · 17/08/2025 22:09

GameOfJones · 13/08/2025 21:00

What about something like this?

Yumi Teal Mesh Wrap Midi Dress With Floral Hem Border | Yumi https://share.google/b5GKCnuihveuq6Tf2

This style would look great on OP, you have a lovely hourglass figure. It's youthful.

PeonyPatch · 17/08/2025 22:12

PinkZebraStripes · 17/08/2025 22:09

This style would look great on OP, you have a lovely hourglass figure. It's youthful.

I really don’t like that dress and I think it’s ageing and an unflattering design. :(
it’s not current or trendy at all

PinkZebraStripes · 17/08/2025 22:16

Omg I love this. You look stunning. It is a lot of lemon and there is quite a lot going on I'm the second half. I'd say either go full whack with bright pink shoes and bag, as pink and yellow are the colours of youth 💛 Or tone it back with cream/white/orange as they are more similar to the yellow so classier

minipie · 17/08/2025 22:19

God the yellow one is 100x better!

Karen Millen and Reiss sale / outlet sections on the website have some great options at the moment

minipie · 17/08/2025 22:20

Please don’t put bright pink accessories with the yellow dress, that would make it a 1980s Barbie outfit!

PinkZebraStripes · 17/08/2025 22:23

minipie · 17/08/2025 22:20

Please don’t put bright pink accessories with the yellow dress, that would make it a 1980s Barbie outfit!

😂😂😂 This is very true.

bumbaloo · 18/08/2025 00:12

Rockaroundthexmastree · 14/08/2025 15:13

Thanks, I must remember to throw out all my other clothes that say otherwise and buy size 14 in everything based on one photo of a dress that is clearly very unflattering on my body shape. I have several pairs of size 6 jeans too - they must be pretending to be twice the size 🫣

I have put the pink dress back on Vinted and ordered some of the suggestions plus some off asos in a range of different styles so will update ☺️ Thankyou everyone

Are you American? Do you mean American 8?

Angrymum22 · 18/08/2025 00:23

Have you considered a patterned/print type fabric. I was at a wedding last week and the posh end of the guests were all in prints. Also there were several lovely jump suits sort of fit and flare shape rather than having a defined waist.
This one looked stunning on one of the guests. www.frenchconnection.com/products/arlette-wide-leg-jumpsuit-poppy-red?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17339367064&gbraid=0AAAAAD-TvThcJvod13P2Z7HiMQVLa6VrA&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-4XFBhCBARIsAAdNOkviw3FXl7ncbGdiqEr8xOXK7OejVs7Xxkn8epJkJP4Xi7vFKedy8ygaAqXpEALw_wcB

manicpixieschemegirl · 18/08/2025 00:50

PeonyPatch · 13/08/2025 22:31

Ooops, didn’t mean to multi post

also found this which is very pretty:

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/pink-floral-jacquard-tie-neck-fifi-midi-dress-d250625pnk

This is lovely.

OP doesn’t have an hourglass figure in any way shape or form @PinkZebraStripes.

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