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Dresses for hourglass figures

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:43

Hi, so this honestly isn't a stealth boast before people come at me (been accused of that before on here and Im way too ancient for that malarky). I want to embrace my figure. Im 50, Im a healthy weight (BMI 22), but I have an extreme hourglass figure. Huge boobs (34gg), flat stomach and small waist (27 inch), not a huge arse but still I go in and out - but I have really chunky arms and chunky legs, so I like to cover both ideally or at least the tops of them. Im tall too - 5' 10.

I feel I do look a loads slimmer when I have something really fitted around my middle that emphasises my waist but also flat tummy. If i don't because of my other proportions I just look fat and frumpy, and Im not.

So can anyone advise of nice dresses I could buy? 50s ones that go out at the waist dont really suit me. I bought the infamous strawberry dress from Cider thats all over tiktok currently and it fit me PERFECTLY - and I have had so many compliments and people asking me if ive lost loads of weight ( I haven't) so this has prompted me because clearly Im not dressing well for my shape. This dress covers the top of my arms, fits on my boobs but is tight right down to the hips. Where can I find other dresses like this??

Anyone with the same issue? Im very Christina Hendricks (sadly without the gorgeous face, hair or the money or the desire to wear high heels - which I simply cant do as I walk like im pissed in them).

Help me style gurus! :) This dress has made me feel like a goddess and now Im addicted and want to make more of an effort.

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Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 19:51

Also this from Hobbs

https://www.hobbs.com/product/dormer-velvet-dress/0224-5608-9845L00-EVERGREEN.html

Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 19:53

A 1930s silhouette

Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 19:53

This

bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:55

I can only see the hobbs one overtheatlantic

Ive been looking at wiggle dresses which would be perfect - except i dont think they work with flats?? what do people think? i have chubby legs and calves. But i just refuse to do heels.

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Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 19:55

Sorry, here it is

Dresses for hourglass figures
bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:56

OMG thats beautiful.

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:56

do you have a link for that? that really is lovely.

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:58

and what are peoples thoughts on wiggle dresses at my age. Is that ridiculous?? am I too old for that?

I think i want to move out of my usual uniform of dungarees and baggy jeans.

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 19:59

really i couldnt love this more. Thank you so much.

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Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 20:00

Wiggle dresses are usually thought of as more of a sexy look so not necessarily worn with flats, but surely a more modern twist would be to pair them with a cute loafer. Like a two toned loafer?

JDM625 · 04/08/2025 20:07

No idea what a wiggle dress or the strawberry dress are?
Budget?
What is the dress for? Shopping, a wedding, a picnic?

I'm also hourglass and have always found a V neck and pencil skirt coming to just below the knees to be the most flattering. Also some wrap dresses where you can cinch in the waist yourself are good.

https://www.wallis.co.uk/product/wallis-tailored-crepe-ruffle-pencil-dress_byy15997?colour=navy

https://www.wallis.co.uk/product/jolie-moi-metallic-wrap-bodycon-dress_p-8865b09f-7651-4420-9b73-a09d74e69421?colour=Pink

Dresses | Tailored Crepe Ruffle Pencil Dress | Wallis

Discover Tailored Crepe Ruffle Pencil Dress available to buy online at wallis.co.uk/. Available with quick delivery and easy return options. Shop now!

https://www.wallis.co.uk/product/wallis-tailored-crepe-ruffle-pencil-dress_byy15997?colour=navy

bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:18

No specific event. Just need day dresses and evening dresses i guess.

The infamous Cider strawberry dress that started all this....before then I didn't really realise I wasnt dressing for my figure.

Midi Dresses - Cider

Knit Fabric Square Neck Strawberry Graphic Contrasting Lace Trim Midi Dress For Date Vacation

Find this stylish Square Neck Strawberry Graphic Contrasting Lace Trim Midi Dress featuring a Contrasting Binding Knotted design for Date Vacation on CIDER. Free shipping available. Discover more Midi Dress options. Shop now and perfect your stylish lo...

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Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 20:19

That’s a gorgeous dress and perfect for an hourglass figure.

bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:20

I know right! I bought it in the only other colours they had in stock - the big blue print. Its just a perfect shape for me.

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:21

Although it totally breaks all the 'women over 50 shouldn't have cleavage out or wear florals' rule doesn't it!

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Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 20:21

Carol Kirkwood has a lovely hourglass figure and dresses beautifully.

Overtheatlantic · 04/08/2025 20:22

Rules are meant to be broken.

bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:24

i just looked her up. Yes she does and shes all fitted isn't she. I need to start doing that.

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bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:27

Ive been doing the social worker 'uniform' for so long ive got lazy. Im just so shocked by the response I got by wearing something fitted as if Id gone on a mssive diet. lol. i haven't done a thing.

But yeah I usually live in my lucy and yak dungarees and docs. Im basically still dressing as a I did as a grungy teen.

Off to get a more sensible sexy wardrobe...:)

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Marlaysydney12 · 04/08/2025 20:47

Have a look at what Hannah Waddingham wears for inspo. I'm similar(ish) to you. Very high waisted, wide trousers and a satin blouse will look great on you. Also looser shirt dresses with a tie/belt.

bigkahunaburger · 04/08/2025 20:56

Oh yes Hannah. Shes a goddess. I could never pull that look off though I fear. I feel like a right knob.

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