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Which dress?

21 replies

Doidontimmm · 07/07/2025 21:28

I love these dresses for an anniversary meal abroad…but I’m mid 50s, short, size 12 (just). Are they too young for me?

Which dress?
Which dress?
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SwedishEdith · 07/07/2025 21:29

Not at all.

Fizzysticks · 07/07/2025 21:30

Love the second dress!

PaxAeterna · 07/07/2025 21:31

They are lovely dresses but as a size 12 short person the large pattern would drown me. I always do for small patterns and no sudden colour changes as that can make you look smaller.

indoorplantqueen · 07/07/2025 21:32

You’re not too old. Personally I think the second one is lovely.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 07/07/2025 21:33

No, they will be maxi on you, but nothing wrong with that.

I love the second. The first would need fairly toned arms

dudsville · 07/07/2025 21:33

They're both nice, the second one looks more like a celebratory meal.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 07/07/2025 21:34

I'm older than you and I have a very similar dress to the green dress (from Monsoon) which I love.

Steelworks · 07/07/2025 21:34

dudsville · 07/07/2025 21:33

They're both nice, the second one looks more like a celebratory meal.

I agree. The first one is more of a day dress.

Doidontimmm · 07/07/2025 21:42

Thank you! I don’t like short dresses so always buy midi which are in effect maxi on me.

I love both but maybe the 1st would be nice for during the day and the second for evening.

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FloraBotticelli · 07/07/2025 21:51

They’re nice, the second look nicer and more dressy. I’d check what the first one looks like on you, as the horizontal blocks might make you look shorter/out of proportion.

VerityUnreasonble · 07/07/2025 21:53

The first one looks like a dupe of an Alemais dress?

They're both nice, I'd probably wear the 2nd for dinner though.

RosesAndHellebores · 07/07/2025 21:54

I like them both very much. Personally, I couldn't wear the first one because I need a supportive bra.

Doidontimmm · 07/07/2025 22:00

I don’t have the biggest chest so no issues there.

Thank you all again I feel confident to buy them at least to try on now I don’t feel too old for them!

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IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 07/07/2025 22:27

VerityUnreasonble · 07/07/2025 21:53

The first one looks like a dupe of an Alemais dress?

They're both nice, I'd probably wear the 2nd for dinner though.

Let's be charitable and say it's inspired, by Alémais, rather than blatant theft. It is available from Next and Debenhams.

https://www.nextdirect.com/kr/en/style/su721945/h26784

Here's a blatant theft.

Alémais
Not Alémais

Buy Apricot Green Birds and Palms Border Midi Dress from Next South Korea

Shop for Apricot Green Birds and Palms Border Midi Dress at Next South Korea. International shipping and returns available. Buy now!

https://www.nextdirect.com/kr/en/style/su721945/h26784

Catcatcat111 · 07/07/2025 22:29

I like both! Would probably personally go for the second as my arms aren’t toned.

Doidontimmm · 12/07/2025 06:58

I ordered and got them and love the bird & palms one so much. It’s beautiful fabric and so flattering.

Sending back the other though, flimsy material, very dark and just not as lovely as the photos!

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NoMoreHotHols · 12/07/2025 08:05

I much prefer the first dress too, OP! Would you have a link for it?

Doidontimmm · 12/07/2025 08:52

https://www.debenhams.com/product/apricot-birds-and-palms-print-midi-dress_p-940c23ad-7a1c-4708-9285-a51be6505534?colour=Green&size=10&sv1=affiliate&sv_campaign_id=626889&awc=22735_1751802025_c5b3a2004ff02dd238a5e6e09c1239fe&utm_medium=affiliates&utm_source=awin&utm_campaign=UK_626889&utm_content=Comparison+Shopping+Service+%28CSS%29

Dresses | Birds And Palms Print Midi Dress | Apricot

Discover Birds And Palms Print Midi Dress available to buy online at debenhams.com. Available with quick delivery and easy return options. Shop now!

https://www.debenhams.com/product/apricot-birds-and-palms-print-midi-dress_p-940c23ad-7a1c-4708-9285-a51be6505534?awc=22735_1751802025_c5b3a2004ff02dd238a5e6e09c1239fe&colour=Green&size=10&sv1=affiliate&sv_campaign_id=626889

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Doidontimmm · 12/07/2025 08:53

It’s also available direct from the apricot website

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NoMoreHotHols · 12/07/2025 10:32

Thank you!

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 12/07/2025 10:45

Doidontimmm · 12/07/2025 06:58

I ordered and got them and love the bird & palms one so much. It’s beautiful fabric and so flattering.

Sending back the other though, flimsy material, very dark and just not as lovely as the photos!

I much preferred the Apricot dress (tbh, don't like the Yumi one at all)

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