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Wedding guest dress help!

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WickWood · 03/07/2025 21:21

Hi there,

I'm going to my close friends wedding in August and I really need help finding a dress to wear!

I had a baby 8 months ago and I'm quite conscious of my stomach area and the top of my arms/armpit area (not that I can blame the baby on that) I don't even know what size I am really, probably an 18-20.

I'm not massively into dresses but would really like to feel comfortable and confident in something! The wedding is fairly casual and laid back, so nothing too fancy.

Thank you very much!

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Chungai · 03/07/2025 21:25

What colours suit you, what's your style and shape?

WickWood · 03/07/2025 22:12

@Chungai I'm probably quite round? I have a big bum/thighs and stomach, I do go in at the waist, my boobs are probably a C cup.

I've completely lost myself and any sense of style! I wear doc martens, this is a dress I'm wearing a lot currently
https://www.next.co.uk/style/su458528/ag5311
Before pregnancy i lived in skinny jeans, baggy tops and boots. I feel like I need a whole new wardrobe, that actually fits and suits me!

I'm very pale, long dark hair, so probably no pastels? I love cobalt blue. I wear mostly dark colours.

Thank you x

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Redrosesposies · 03/07/2025 22:18

Have a look on Nobody's Child and Roman websites. They have some lovely flattering dresses.
I've got one from Roman for a casual wedding next month. It's very vibrant so I'm not linking it for posters to rip it to shreds as I like it and it suits me. It has a 4 inch deep band of shirring elastic around the waist so it shows my shape without clinging and it's really flattering. Definitely worth a look.

ItsNotUnusualToBe · 03/07/2025 22:26

www.next.co.uk/style/su717894/w23394#w23394

There's a couple of cobalt blue dresses on next I rather like this one.

WickWood · 04/07/2025 13:23

Thank you, some fab ideas here.

@FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar I absolutely love this dress!

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Chungai · 04/07/2025 16:08

What colour eyes / tone skin (cool or warm)?

JustAnInchident · 04/07/2025 16:15

I love a hope and ivy wrap dress, they’re so flattering and cover the top of your arms with the flutter sleeves, so would be ideal I think? Lots of different patterns available and you’re likely to find a bargain on Vinted if you look. I think people generally suggest sizing up, particularly if you’re bigger busted. I’ve just bought ‘The Julia’ for a wedding but this one is perhaps more your colour?

The Stephanie

The Stephanie Contrast Frill Sleeve Maxi Wrap Dress with Tie Waist

https://hopeandivy.co.uk/collections/new-season/products/the-stephanie-contrast-frill-sleeve-maxi-wrap-dress

Rocknrollstar · 04/07/2025 16:18

Look at Yours and Curvissa

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