Hammer toe and smart shoes!

[OrlandoTheMarmaladeCat]

My daughter is getting married later this year and I have a very wonderful pair of shoes which look great with my outfit. But... I have a hammer toe and they are distinctly uncomfortable.

Am I mad to consider putting up with it for church/reception and then changing into flats for the evening? Is there anything I can do to help ease the discomfort? Numbing spray for example (if that's even a thing). Is there anything I can do medically that would be resolved by September - chopping my toe off?!

Words of wisdom whether with solutions or telling me to (wo)man up would be gratefully received.

Shoes are these: https://www.lkbennett.com/product/CCFLORETSUEDEGreenGreen%7eFloret-Navy-Nappa-Leather-Pointed-Toe-Courts-Green?glCountry=GB&glCurrency=GBP&country=GB&istCompanyId=337c91ab-deea-4ab6-998e-03ece089da1f&istFeedId=8eb3370f-e730-40e5-89c0-e499b9e47d89&istItemId=rqqrllppp&istBid=t&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA5pq-BhBuEiwAvkzVZcq2v4xY9dWtVNOZPt0lS-rZzRobuq2hWVhPG1YLT652vFk6vLo1ZhoCtpsQAvD_BwE

I couldn’t enjoy the event if I was in pain. Life is too short to wear uncomfortable shoes. I’d find something else. But I win no style awards so please do listen to others too! Perhaps for the ceremony and photos only?

I would try to help the underlying condition firstly - maybe see a podiatrist and see if correct toes might help?
https://correcttoes.com/foot-help/foot-conditions-and-problems/hammertoes/
I use these for a different toe problem but remember reading that they can help hammer toes - just a thought, as those shoes look lovely, but being in pain is terrible when you are trying to enjoy a special day.

I decided long ago that life was too short for shoes (or underwear!) that wasn't comfortable! I think you'll enjoy the day much more wearing something that doesn't cause pain!

Have you seen a podiatrist yet?
Can you actually straighten the toe? Are there any, tiny splints that help? What type of shoes you normally wear that are comfy?

I'd find a different pair of shoes! Nothing worse than being in pain all day, standing for photos etc.

Would a peep toe style work to let the toe out, but with a flower/embellishment to hide the toe- if its unsightly?

Thanks all for your words of wisdom.

I'm having a tussle between vanity and practicality but in the end I think practicality must win. Have booked a session with a podiatrist locally and have also been looking at shoes with wider toe boxes. Sargasso & Grey seem to have some lovely ones - more comfortable if not 'quite' as gorgeous!

Really appreciate your help!