Hair colour help! Pic attached

[Tusktusk]

I think it’s a bit wishy washy, no particular colour. I’m quite pale. My eyebrows are wishy washy too.

Its natural colour is mid mousy brown. I have quite a bit of grey at the top and temples.

I had dark blonde (no bleach) highlights 7 months ago which can still be seen in the bottom half.

DD (16) says my hair colour is too close to my skin colour and I should go darker. I worry that darker would be too high maintenance with all the grey coming through.

Ideas?

Lighter would be less obvious for root regrowth and greys

I actually think it’s a nice colour.
I think lighter and it can look ageing and far too fake.
I can’t say weather dark would suit you. Maybe brown with a red undertone rather than a cool brown but perhaps you need to ask a professional.