Need to hide a pregnancy at a wedding

[Probionic]

It’s a small wedding and I don’t want to detract any attention from the couple as there are already issues.

Will only be 12ish weeks but I have a flat stomach and it’s my second pregnancy so I’m anticipating a bit of a bump.

I usually wear quite slinky stuff so a floral tent may as well be a sign saying ‘up the duff’.

I’m looking for a cami dress with an artful ruffle or lots of detail. Maybe one of those tiered maxi dresses. But everything on ASOS is too sexy for a church wedding or too surrendered wife.

Has anyone seen anything that may help?

What about this one?

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/evangeline-pleated-halterneck-maxi-dress-221648666.html

Fee options on this site if you like a bold pattern.

https://dlsb.co.uk/products/artemis-fuchsia-orange-animal-print-pleated-midi-dress?_pos=16&_sid=75497598e&_ss=r

What about something like this - https://www.aym-studio.com/collections/new-arrivals/products/fuji-mini-dress?variant=47387614216425

They're also launching a longer version tomorrow evening which has pockets! Their Instagram showed it in blue.

This is lovely and with a softer hairstyle, simpler sandal or espadrille it could definitely work for a christening too.

Bear in mind that your boobs might be fuller than usual, which might give it away more than a small bump.

Would something this cut work? Short at the front but back makes it more wedding/christening suitable?
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Would this be suitable, or might it look too casual?

https://www.johnlewis.com/hush-cassie-halter-neck-maxi-dress-watercolour-green/p111840763

Would this one work is it too bare on the shoulders?

https://www.johnlewis.com/mango-susane-pleated-halterneck-dress-medium-blue/p112005881

Farm rio have good options and run slightly bigger.

https://farmrio.uk/products/mixed-flowery-rufle-one-strap-midi-dress

Or

https://farmrio.uk/products/graphic-fishes-off-white-mini-dress

Have a look at their website. Several nice options. I'm a big fan. Just don't get anything with a waist band.

I found the most flattering bump hiding thing was a plainish dress in a solid colour with a jacket on top. It mixes up the silhouette a bit,

Hey what about this?
https://fhwt.app.link/q4oSKN2lgKb

@Probionic What’s a surrendered wife ?
(The ASOS moss green dress is perfect)

This scenario is actually quite funny aha

https://www.marksandspencer.com/pleated-midi-skirt/p/clp60675069?color=BRIGHTPINK#intid=carousel_FUNH_AT_PHOENIX-SESSION-RECOMMENDATION-V2_END_PDP_31_3:72e8dc1d-20d3-4085-8dc3-55ce6234d4ea

I love this, a top and skirt could be useful

I was a pregnant bridesmaid at 14 weeks with my second. The dress didn't hide it, but I wore spanx to actually get into it. They were surprisingly comfy.
With the right dress I think you'll be able to be discrete.

Sad you feel you have to hide your condition. Rethink it.

It’s really not sad and I don’t need to rethink it

do you have a dress suggestion for me or…?

is it not obvious that there may be very good reasons why OP doesn't want it to become apparent? The couple may have recently experienced a loss and OP might not want her news to cast any sadness over their day. Or a multitude of other sensitive reasons!

I think you are a very kind and considerate person op
i have never dealt with fertility issues but I can only imagine the pain and it’s not the day, as you said, to let it be known that you have happy news (huge congrats by the way) 💐

@Probionic

Which colours you do like in dresses, OP? What suits you?

This! Plus I found most people were more concerned about their next drink, not what I had in my glass.

I managed my own birthday party, a hen do and a wedding without a suspicion!

Enjoy the wedding.

I’m sure it’ll be fine OP. At 12 weeks you won’t be showing even with a second baby, certainly not enough for anyone to notice. the second khaki green one you posted is the nicest.

Yes but have a water bottle of shloer - looks like wine but not

@WonderingWanda

noooooo peplums are so out of fashion

@MnaAthCliath

get a grip hun