I am really struggling with finding anything which suits me. A bit of background... My weight and fitnesss/tone has fluctuated hugely over the years. I used to be a very fit, muscular early 20's. Worked in very physical jobs with a lot of upper arm strength. Then went into a sedate job, got fat and lost my muscle. Had 2 kids... got fatter. Went up to a 22. Then lost 6.5 stone 5 years ago. Was a size 10/12. Put 4 stone of it back on over covid and now have lost 2.5 of that again. I am currently a size 14. However... I am only 5ft tall and have horrific arms. Massive bingo wings down to my elbows, (I think due to them being so muscular in my earlier years) a big, flabby belly which even with weight loss I still look 9 months pregnant, flappy thighs (despite walking 4 miles a day and riding horses) skinnyish legs and a small face! Menopause isn't helping my belly fat. I hate any form of 'structured' exercise and refuse to go back swimming (after someone threw up in the pool when I used to go!) and certainly not the gym. I am fairly physical anyway with dogs and horses and running a smallholding. I have quite small, droopy boobs. think my shape would be described as 'apple on legs' but not sure. I don't really conform to any shape! Going clothes shopping is my worst nightmare... I hate it, get bored and need to get home within an hour! So everything is bought online. I live in t shirt and leggings normally at home and running errands. I have a small folk festival in a few weeks, and want to wear something nice for that. But I just don't know what would work? Requirements are... upper arms have to be covered, preferably nearly to the elbow. Nothing puffy or restrictive. Clothes have to stretch or I get claustrophobic in them. Happy for strappy things, providing a cardigan or something to go over. Don't mind my legs out (like the freedom) but to only just above the knee. Nothing below the knee. Bear in mind I am only 5ft and so most clothes shown above the knee on models are ankle length on me! I think I prefer dresses to shorts, which tend to ride up on me and go between my very flat bum! Due to my boobs I wear Miss Mary bras which give a great shape, but tend to be quite chunky and often show under anything other than my t shirts. Colours are black, blues, purples and greens. I quite like some pattern, but certainly nothing that draws too much attention. Maybe a bit 'alternative' but not too florally etc. So... any ideas please?! Good online shops? styles? Any help!