I need some help. I'm 44 and overweight with a mumtum. I'm supposed to be going to see girls aloud with a group of younger girl friends soon. I have nothing to wear and I don't know what to buy. It's in Sheffield so the weather could be anything but it might be hot in there. I don't look nice in jeans, I don't want to wear anything too booby or too short or too tight. All the dresses I have are like summer or winter dresses or evening attire and nothing seems right for the occasion. And shoes? I don't really wear heels but what should I wear. This time of year is hard because normally I'd just wear Chelsea boots or sandals but again it doesn't seem right. Ideas on a postcard...