Hi, I am size 16/18, big on top, wide back, 38DD bust, high (no) waist, big tummy, slim legs/bum, affectionately known as an apple shape 🙄, please can someone give me some fashion advice - occassion and casual wear! Arms okay, but prefer a sleeve over strap or sleeveless, like jeans, fit me better than jeggings, 46 and fed up of not liking how I look/dress! Thank you.