Until recently I had a stash of sexy underwear and a daily rotation of very ugly yet very comfortable large knickers. I had a couple of sexy but reasonably comfy pairs which I'd wear if I thought a situation may transition to sex unexpectedly, but not enough to get me through many consecutive days.
The need has finally arisen where I require daily pants that aren't going to repel my new boyfriend but also aren't going to inhibit me in my daily life. Given this development, I have been buying knickers and trying them out. So far, M&S have provided some pretty comfy pairs, but they do kind of fall on the side of I am no longer dying to have sex with you, which is very much not the vibe I want to give off.
John Lewis, on the other hand, does three -packs of soft black totally lacy generous bikini briefs. They are the best I have found but often out of stock in my size, or people have already opened the packets and rummaged around the knickers, which makes me not want them any more.
With all this being said, I still still open to other recommendations of comfy/sexy underwear, either pants, or, although it seems almost impossible, lacy bralettes.