I need some jeans and a smart-casual top/s to wear at a casual drinks event with school gate pals and for an upcoming city break with DC. I am size 20, used to have a waist but bow have a huge tummy, and average to tallish. Huge boobs. Big legs and calves sadly. Help! I am late 40s, one primary school DC and one senior school DC so many of my peers are a bit younger.