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Open back tops (bra advice)

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Notsomini · 18/02/2024 08:31

Hi I wear alternative tops quite allot I have a few of them in my wardrobe and wear them with jeans as an everyday thing. The backs normally have a open pattern like this

https://www.vinted.co.uk/items/2183890666-banned-dark-collection-skull-vest-top-halloween-size-xs-but-i-think-up-to-about-a-12

In the winter I've been wearing a cardigan over the top so you can't tell but now summer is coming. I wondered if anyone has any advice about my bra. I have to wear a bra as I am busty but it looks bad with the bra strap showing in the pattern (if that makes sense). Any suggestions of what I can do to make it look nice maybe any bras that don't do up at the back or have nice detailing. Thankyou. 😊

Banned Dark Collection Skull Vest Top. Halloween. Size XS but I think up to about a 12.

BNWT. Although there is a small tear near one of the skull eyes on the back as pictured (think this could be sewn)

https://www.vinted.co.uk/items/2183890666-banned-dark-collection-skull-vest-top-halloween-size-xs-but-i-think-up-to-about-a-12

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KnickerlessParsons · 18/02/2024 09:33

I don't think you can wear backless tops if you also need to wear a bra ☹️

Lavender14 · 18/02/2024 09:36

I'd second the idea of a sportsbra style, or a nice bralette so it's like a top in itself underneath rather than your average bra straps at the back? Either in the same colour or a contrasting colour that still ties in with your top eg black or red.

Mybusyday · 18/02/2024 09:53

Have you tried an Invisibra? They just kind of stick to your body without any straps. I had one when I got married as my wedding dress was completely backless but I wanted a bit of shape to the front of the dress. I was sceptical with them at first so I practised before I got married but it was amazing and on my wedding day it didn't move or slip at all. I have Worn this bra a few times since with backless tops and it is still amazing! I must add I am quite petite in cup size so I'm not sure how good they are for a larger bust size. Mine was very expensive for a bra really but IMO it was definitely worth it. Invisibra by LaVaLia

AvoSourdough · 18/02/2024 11:48

I like wearing 'exposed back' tops with sports bras (or regular if you prefer) that have a strappy or lace design at the back. Like these:

https://www.myprotein.com/sports-clothing/mp-women-s-adapt-strappy-sports-bra-darkest-navy/14021759.html

https://www.victoriassecret.co.uk/style/ls430542/k07079

Non-sport bras with these designs usually have a front closure if that works for you.

Mazuslongtoenail · 18/02/2024 11:50

I hate those stick on things, I feel constantly terrified they’ll come unstuck but I recently bought this and it’s excellent

https://www.johnlewis.com/wonderbra-ultimate-backless-bra/black/p5949981?size=32D&s_ppc=2dx_mixed_fashion_BAU&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIpdCDh-m0hAMVr5NQBh3vqwM7EAQYASABEgJBVfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Notsomini · 18/02/2024 12:04

Mazuslongtoenail · 18/02/2024 11:50

This looks promising! Will order one thankyou x

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